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Niphz
Crew

PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:19 pm
Maybe she's just trying to be friendly. I think her intentions are not malicious, if you see what I mean, although I understand that it can be a bit annoying. About what she thinks - just ignore that, it has nothing to do with you; I mean, I personally have very.. unorthodox views about some subjects but I would never randomly discuss them with people. If the physical intimacy gets to you, just tell her gently that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you'd rather she wasn't so clingy. About how she acts//dresses - well, y'know, we all have our little oddities. I mean, about ducks, or whatever. Just accept that as part of her.. individuality. 3nodding She just sounds like she has mood swings, sometimes. And I wonder if her behaviour is caused by her illness? What is Lichen Sclerosis, exactly? And if she's copying you, perhaps the best thing to do is just gently encourage her to have her own views and ideas. Sometimes we just have to.. treat these people like children, in that detached yet kind manner. (: Good luck. You could of course just ignore her forevermore.. but that is a tad mean.. P:
 
PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 5:36 pm
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One more night , I wanna be with you
Where I wanna hold you tight


I haven't dropped by since a while. ];

Well, there's that new kid in my class since a few weeks from now. My first impression: He's really ugly and something bothered me about him. I told about it to my friends and they kept saying I was judging him for no specific reaons and that I should give him a chance. I didn't believe them because I knew I was right.

Days followed. I started noticing that the new kid keeps staring at me in a strange way. I ignored it since I thought he was only acknowledging my presence. But as more days passed, his stares became freaky and disgusting. Like I was talking to my friends in my locker row. I then, walked to throw away something in a near by garbage and I saw the new kid wlaking perpendicularly to my locker row. Right when he saw me, he stopped and locked his eyes on me. Feeling really unconfortable and irritated by that, I snapped a quick "What are you staring at?" Right after, he immediately walked away with a FREAKING UGLY SMILES OF HIS. Just ew. Another day, I was in detention with a friend on lunch time. My buddy told me she saw the new kid walk several times in front of the room we were in and looking inside as if he wanted to look for someone. I guessed it all, he was looking for me. The teacher started naming students who could leave the room since detention was over. My friend went out before I did and when I stepped out of the class, I saw the new kid a few meters away. He stopped and kept staring at me with his gross eyes. Then, he slowly continued to walk.

And here's what happened lately. The bell rang and the first class was over. I went to my locker to put my books in it. My friend then came to me on my side and whispered me "That was disgusting.. The new kid is just behind right now and I saw him looking at you up and down to stop on your butt. Like INTENSELY."

. . . I never hated a guy this much for just staring at me. I feel like puking everytime I see him around. Art classes became my worst course since he's in my art team AND he slows down a lot our project. GOSH.

.____.

It feels so right
To
night

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mymiridon

PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 8:11 pm
@niphz: i went to argue my paper. apparently i didn't meet the length requirement. He wanted 5 whole pages not just 4 and a quarter stare anyways he told me that if he was just grading teh paper it would've been a b essay... yeah... and i got my midterm back. I got a C!! because i didn't follow direction. I did the whole exam instead of just three... other wise i'd have a perfect grade... stressed I think scelerosis is a spinal defect, licheon is prolly just a type of spinal defect.

@tapi: your person (she doesn't count as a friend since the way you describe her has no friend qualities) is most likely just looking for attention. why else would she write in front of you all the time? you can give her the attention she wants or just ignore her and forget about it. If she can't deal with it then it's her problem not yours. Tell her to shove off or something.

@moon: jeez, that stalker sounds kind of creepy. As far as art class goes can't you just request a group change?  
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 11:46 am
@Moon - HE'S A SERIAL KILLER. RUUUUUN. D:

@yalie - Oh, right. And that's STUPID, we never get docked grades for being less than a page too short.. in fact we never really get given minimum lengths, only maximum ones.. and make sure you read the question properly! C'est tres important. razz
 

Niphz
Crew


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:38 pm
User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.Niph - You mean tooo friendly >.>
But still, thinking some fictional character is real and thinking of themselves as a timeloerd is just...gay
I'll try saying that I feel uncomfortable when she does that interation thing...even though I said it to her before and she does it again saying that she can't help it...
But they way she dresses is just...urgh D= It's like an embaressment to walk around with her...
Lichen Sclerosis has something to do with these large white spots on her skin...they're everywhere on her arms and legs. Apparently it can be in the genital areas too >.>;;; Pretty disturbing to think about.
I fear that if I treat her like a child she would get even more clingy and possibly take it the wrong way...I don't think that I could take it =_______=;;
Don't think she would want to have her own wiews >.>;; She wants to copy people...she admitted it herself...no one could get to her >.>;;;

MLN - Ew D=
I would go tell the police on him or something....the perv D<
That's just....sick >.>
Reminds me of this yr 11 guy that has a demented looking face that just came to my school a few weeks ago...he looks like an asian caveman ._____.;;; Dunno why he's in my media studies since I'm a year younger than him...he probably has learning difficulties.

yalie - yeah, she admitted that she was an attention seeker D=
I would loooove to tell her to ******** off and stuff but if I do I fear she might go attempt suicide and become depressed...then I get blamed for it D=

Me and my friend manged to not talk to her at all in period 1 and 2...we just went talking about anime's and etc...
She gave me a fugly smile in period 1 D= It was like a happy and evil big grin/smile D= I tried ignoring it...
Yeah today...had to print off something for my homework in computer room, in the cooridor I see my cousin I wave and say hi to her...then SHE comes up and I can't help but say hi to her too....she comes up to me at the wrong moments -______- Cos if I didn't say hi to her then she would be depressed and blah. She asked me who I was waiting for and I said "someone..." then somehow I mentioned I need to go computer room...she asked me if she can come...I sooo badly wanted to say...
"NO! YOU LITTLE CREEP!" but couldn't >.> I knew the consequences....
So she said she's gonna go up to the canteen...she left...I went to computer room after a couple of mins she comes in o_______o;;; HOW THE HELL DID SHE FIND ME?! There are like 10 computer rooms in my school >.>
And yeah...she was typing like made on the keyboard in there...and asked a passing teacher if the Turks are asian or not...apparently not but instead can be some holy people...she stteled with that and said to me,
"Sorry Julie, I'm afraid I'm not asian but some holy person"

Oh oh and apparently my friend's BF told her to ******** off and leave me and his GF (my friend) alone during lunch when I was not there. She got really upset...in the end he apologized to her...I wish he didn't apologize >.>

Oh I forgot to mention...another weird habit...she stares at my friend changing in the changing rooms ._______.
 
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:40 pm
Your freaky person should get together with Moon's freaky person and have freaky babies. 4laugh
 

Niphz
Crew


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:22 pm
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Funny thing is that we believe that our freaky friend is too frigid or CAN'T have BABIES since we believe that she will never hit puberty...
Cos she doesn't even have it yet D=
And we just can't imagine her with boobs and more spots to make her even fuglier!

Oh oh...we plan to interview her future husband during the bachelor party about what he see's in my freaky friend...and tell him EVERYTHING freaky that she has done in the pst and etc...

And we were joking about the only guys that would marry her are blind or are jigolo's who has sex with her every night and stuff and asks for money in the end, and then she finds out he only wants her money and her response is "No wonder you keep asking me for money everytime we did it"

Me and my friends has formed some kind of "We hate Stacey club" now -nodnod-
Where we talk behind her back and possibly critisize evreything she does to us ninja

Oh oh....I forgot to mention...apparently she goes to see a psychiatrist every so often to get her brain checked, because she can't control her mind o.O;;;;
 
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:27 pm
You guys.. are mean.

That's all I can say, tbh. neutral
 

Niphz
Crew


mymiridon

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:17 pm
@:tapi: oh my, i agree with niphz on this one. you guys are mean. neutral
@niphz: no he kind told us the directions they weren't written down. I misunderstood what he said and i got points taken off. well i guess the tougher the teacher the more prepared for the world i'll be.  
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:20 pm
User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.I know

But we can't help it D=

I letted it all out to my friend last month after Cambridge, she agreed with me so did a couple of my other friends.

It's just that she changed o.O;;;

Cos she came to High School with no friends at all, and we are like the only friends she has D=
At first she was normal...then she changed...dunno why...must be something to do with fitting in or something D=
We all tried to bear with her chilidish-ness, but it just made us annoyed.
Well, one of my other friends at first hated her at end of year 7 (she was sort've friends with her in the beginning of the year, just that she never hanged out with her) just when I made friends with her. I used to be sympathetic towards Stacey, and gone against the words of my friend who hated her.
She mentioned that she was annoying...well I guess we all believe her now >.>

And apparently Stacey bullshits about my friend and her BF, since Stacey had a crush on my friend's BF when they were going out...
So we use this reason to talk crap about her, just not spreading it or it would be too much of us.

So we're just actually doing this just to let out our anger with Stacey or wouldn't be able to keep it in >.>

Cos we bottle things in too much.
 

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mymiridon

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:27 pm
@tapi: dude... that's a bad reason. Regardless of what Stacey's done it's pointless to just talk about her behind her back since it really doesn't solve anything. No offense but starting a hate club behind someone's back is really disgusting.  
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:50 pm
I agree. I mean, I know it's satisfying to have a good annoyed-at-someone-nattering session, but.. not to this malicious point. If she's annoying, just stay away from her. Be a little selfish. Then she'll realise - eventually - that she can't rely on you guys and just be encouraged to try and make other friends. But talking behind her back is really. Not helpful at all. It's better to ignore her totally than be actively mean about that person..
 

Niphz
Crew


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:53 pm
User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.It wasn't me who started the hate club -_____-
My friend had a major reaction since she heard that she liked her BF. So she mentioned about the hate club, and said anyone who hates her is part of the club...

Then again I did start some kind hate thing with her BF when he made me upset and cry for the first time in years...was that a good enough reason to form some kind of hate thing for him to the point he dies?

I guess you're right...the hate club thing is kind of wrong -_____-
Might even regret it sooner or later...

Then how should I deal this situation?
Like when she goes overboard and stuff how do I release the anger and etc?
 
PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:09 pm
@tapi: I don't know. I don't want to give you bad advice so all I can say is that you should just do what you think is right perhaps seek some guidance. The most important thing to remember is that you shouldn't follow others so blindly.  

mymiridon


soumakisa

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:47 am
yup yup... it is very mean and rude to talk bad things behind people's back.. much less to have a hate club.

if she finds out or sense it, the impact will be hard on her and have a psychological effect on herself and yourself sooner or later.


do what is right.. and the right consequences will follow.. =D  
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