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t0shi0
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 8:53 pm
Tch, tch, you people know nothing. @_<
We had this conversation a while back didn't we? =/
When I joined Gaia I was 12, and I heard that the 12 year olds gets bashed alot, so yeah, I lied. xDD

That confused a lot of people. It was Wiim-kun who pointed it out actually.
So, yesh, I'm 13, I'll be 14 by Oct. and 15 next year, so on so forth.

On another note:
Death to chainletters.
 
PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 8:58 pm
I told you that she was 13 everybody! mrgreen Anyways I'm off to the Sport's Forum to try to be a helper, by the way, it isn't really hard to be a helper in there, I'll tell you later why. sweatdrop  

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 9:00 pm
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I told you that she was 13 everybody! mrgreen Anyways I'm off to the Sport's Forum to try to be a helper, by the way, it isn't really hard to be a helper in there, I'll tell you later why. sweatdrop


Cause no one goes there?

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I just breathed.

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HOMFG. I did it again! Like, whoa.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 9:03 pm
xDD
Nice one. <3
 

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 10:10 pm
t0shi0
Tch, tch, you people know nothing. @_<
We had this conversation a while back didn't we? =/
When I joined Gaia I was 12, and I heard that the 12 year olds gets bashed alot, so yeah, I lied. xDD

That confused a lot of people. It was Wiim-kun who pointed it out actually.
So, yesh, I'm 13, I'll be 14 by Oct. and 15 next year, so on so forth.

On another note:
Death to chainletters.


It's not good to lie about your age to the degree you've done Tosh. 3nodding You've falsely stated that you're 4 years younger than what you really are.

Sinful: Lol, you hit the mark there. rofl  
PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 10:37 pm
[...sinfulanjel...]
xXHotBabiBluXx
I told you that she was 13 everybody! mrgreen Anyways I'm off to the Sport's Forum to try to be a helper, by the way, it isn't really hard to be a helper in there, I'll tell you later why. sweatdrop


Cause no one goes there?

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I just breathed.

o___O

HOMFG. I did it again! Like, whoa.
:]


Kind of, and besides nobody in there is trying to be a sports forums helper or moderator, everyone I see in there always spam and do noob stuff, so if I keep up my good work in the sports forum for about a year, I'll probably be a sports helper in no time. I hope. sweatdrop  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:24 am
t0sh - Now i get it xd
I joined Gaia when i was still 12 i didnt lie about my age o_O i guess its cos i didnt know younger people get teased on Gaia and i wasnt very interested/active on Gaia when i first joined in Sept. sweatdrop untill Nov. xd
I was only 12 on Gaia for 3 months then i was 13 xd

Babi - i go on Sports forum sometimes.......i will only appear in threads to do with the World Cup, English Champioship Football/Soccer ((for you americans)) and fav sports 3nodding And yes there are a lot of noobs spamming there these days...they treat it like the chatterbox gonk
 
PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 10:29 am
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t0sh - Now i get it xd
I joined Gaia when i was still 12 i didnt lie about my age o_O i guess its cos i didnt know younger people get teased on Gaia and i wasnt very interested/active on Gaia when i first joined in Sept. sweatdrop untill Nov. xd
I was only 12 on Gaia for 3 months then i was 13 xd

Babi - i go on Sports forum sometimes.......i will only appear in threads to do with the World Cup, English Champioship Football/Soccer ((for you americans)) and fav sports 3nodding And yes there are a lot of noobs spamming there these days...they treat it like the chatterbox gonk


And people spaz at each other fighting, so I come in to break the fight and stuff. I'm the "only" one I see that does that. sweatdrop  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:01 pm
new problem:

some of you might remember me talking about a girl that thought i was her "best friend"...anyways,,,to this day, i'm still pretending cuz i don't wanna hurt her...i know its wrong to pretend but whatev...thats not the problem...okay...the problem is that she cries almost everyday...and i'm the only one who goes over to her to comfort her...i'm getting really tired now...nobody else goes to talk to her whenever she cries and she automaticlly talks behind their back saying they're not real friends...
 
PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:34 pm
Ooh, lots of things to reply to.

@t0sh - Tut tut. Honestly. You nearly had me fooled.. but not quite xD - and 12-year-olds do get bashed a bit.. when I was 13 and joined I used to post in ED a lot but I was never 'bashed' simply because I never used to tell anyone my age xd don't you remember how I used to be all mysterious about telling anyone how old I was? rofl

@Chainletter discussion - mad xp Hate them. Although it's unfair to blame Babi if he hasn't done anything wrong x___x;;

@sinful - rofl *applauds

@Charlene - I think I vaguely remember something about it.. *has a bad memory* but I'll say this - I have a friend who is quite.. tightly strung, as well - she has quite a bad family background and quite a lot of the time (especially when we have tests and stuff, 'cause she expects a lot of herself and when she doesn't do quite as well as she wants to..) she breaks down.. and I used to be all comforting and stuff but like you I got tired of it because it just happened so often.. it's hard, but the best you can do is not be overly enthusiastic about it 'cause then she'll take it for granted that you'll always be there and that's not good, but if she needs you then you should be there for her, if that makes any sense.. and I think if she does things you don't like (eg talking about people behind their back) then tell her you think it's wrong. Because you're supposed to be her 'best friend', it'll make her sit up and listen. Just tell her straight out what you think she's doing wrong.

Waa, such a long post xD  

Niphredil Ithilmir


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:53 pm
Niphredil Ithilmir


@Charlene - I think I vaguely remember something about it.. *has a bad memory* but I'll say this - I have a friend who is quite.. tightly strung, as well - she has quite a bad family background and quite a lot of the time (especially when we have tests and stuff, 'cause she expects a lot of herself and when she doesn't do quite as well as she wants to..) she breaks down.. and I used to be all comforting and stuff but like you I got tired of it because it just happened so often.. it's hard, but the best you can do is not be overly enthusiastic about it 'cause then she'll take it for granted that you'll always be there and that's not good, but if she needs you then you should be there for her, if that makes any sense.. and I think if she does things you don't like (eg talking about people behind their back) then tell her you think it's wrong. Because you're supposed to be her 'best friend', it'll make her sit up and listen. Just tell her straight out what you think she's doing wrong.



heh...i tried telling her it was wrong before...she rolled her eyes and ignored me...shes a spoiled brat...her parents give her everything she wants...and praticlly lets her win all the fights they have...she always thinks shes right...the only place shes wrong is school...whenever my other friends prove her wrong or argue with her,,,she always ends up crying...its not tests that make her do that...so sometimes i feel that i should have never ever comfort her since it might be convincing her that the other ppl are wrong.  
PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:56 pm
Oh, ok. I see your dilemma.. this sounds cruel (because people keep telling me this about my friend) but perhaps the best idea would be to take a break from her? And then she may realise how she acts and make some changes? Sometimes it takes something drastic to make someone see the truth..  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:58 pm
Niphredil Ithilmir
Oh, ok. I see your dilemma.. this sounds cruel (because people keep telling me this about my friend) but perhaps the best idea would be to take a break from her? And then she may realise how she acts and make some changes? Sometimes it takes something drastic to make someone see the truth..


what do u mean take a break from her? hang out with someone else for a while? she has like no friends because of her personailty...  
PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 1:01 pm
Yeh. Don't ignore her completely, but be slightly cooler towards her despite whatever you may feel inside.. maybe then she'll realise that she's taking your friendship for granted which she shouldn't and then become less.. frustrating. Let her realise for herself that she has no friends because of her personality and then she'll change.  

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 1:31 pm
Babi - yeah that does happen a lot, like which sports team is better and who won against who, its like as if a match has ended and everyone starts fighting at a pub drunk xd

Charlene - i have a friend that is kinda like that, she cries in the middle of a lesson unsuspectedly, i have no idea why neutral
I think your friend cries everyday is beacuse they are very unhappy, and she remembers all the bad thing going on everyday, cos of family problems. And it ends up getting her emotional and sensetive, so she cries. People might not want to comfort/talk to her is because they think she is trying to get attention from everyone and skip class or something rolleyes or they are not nice and ignore her. Its a very good thing you're there to help her, or who knows what would've happen...
 
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