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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 9:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 10:51 pm
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Honestly, I have to say I was on that note as well to. At least, that was until I've found someone who has complete changed everything for me. I know I'll probably be criticized for this, probably mainly revolving around religion and the fact that they can't remain faithful after doing so if it happens before marriage. But saving it for after also doesn't gurantee the expected outcomes. I honestly believe that it should belong to someone who you think deserves it, whether or not they will be your partner in the future and regardless of what the time really is to an extent.
This is a story I have to share, from my mother: Sometime in the last year of her college, she met a Japanese man. They had both build a steady relationship and have fallen in love. When she asked for her parent's consent her boyfriend was rejected, especially since there is a person her parents wanted her to be with(my father) and thought he was much better suited for her than my mother's boyfriend at the time. They both refused to separate from each other, so the relationship progressed secretly, knowing they couldn't be "together" and marry as they hoped. This continued until the boyfriend died in a car accident. Afterwards, my mother was basically forced to be with my father years later.[In case you're wondering, the children of the family are only from my father] Sometimes I think with my conditions, my body'll someday suddenly fail, preventing me from doing what I've wanted to. I'd like to think of it as a spiritual bonding as well. I'm not saying it should be a rushed thing, but when the time right, it's fine.
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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 11:22 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 11:45 pm
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When I told my friend, he actually went "NO NO GIVE IT TO ME SO WE CAN PRACTICE WITH IT. ;D" in of course, a jokingly way. It expires in a year, apparently. PX
As for your question, I suppose it's more of a responsibility and friendship deal. They were fighting a lot the first couple years though.. quite an ugly sight.
The majority of the guys that I seem to know often seem more interested in *ahem* getting ahead in the game rather than actually building a relationship. That I think, is what leads to their early-ish loss of virginity. For that reason, I've never been that interested in the "popular" and "hot" guys, as they seem to be more of the player type. I'm much more satisfied with a sweet, shy type of guy. (: Since I'm in a bit of a long-distance relationship, we haven't really "progressed" as say other couples who can readily see each other can. So we still haven't did certain things, but I feel we are a lot more mature in some ways. With that, I gotta admit that certain topics are getting easy to bring up. I can understand that view, where at first you get really excited about that first time. Then after that, it just seems to go with the flow. Just another part of life and not so much the big thing it once was, ya'know?
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 9:20 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 4:58 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:05 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:40 pm
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t o x i c l i p s t i c k
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 11:05 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 11:19 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 11:39 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 10:38 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 8:49 am
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