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MidnightLetter Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 6:59 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 6:09 am
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Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 6:49 pm
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It's a matter of degrees. Coercion can be a gentle process (get him to notice me) or very aggressive (make him dump his current girlfriend and fall for me instead). One of the basic rules of Wicca craft is that you do no harm, but this can be interpreted many different ways, easily manipulated to suit any circumstance. For instance, if you perform an aggressive love spell by reasoning of "He will be better off with me, I'm doing a good thing by making him dump his girlfriend" then you are manipulating the rules of the religion to suit your own despicable desires. And here I think it fair to mention that if you do something like this, be aware that what goes around, comes around. The Lord and Lady are going to convene the universe to make sure you get what's owed to you.
Therefore, as a general rule, I say don't mess with free will. If he's with another girl, it's because he wants to be, and you're just going to have to deal with that. But, if he's showing interest but needs a little push, I don't see the problem with a gentle love spell.
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Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 11:28 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 8:52 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 9:09 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 11:07 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 11:10 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 9:42 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2007 4:15 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2007 10:06 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 9:46 am
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Oyi vey...
okay, here's my 2cents. Long and drawn out as it is. Heed my words of hippie wisdom.
Love spells are NOT a quick fix. Love spells are NOT for a specific person. The only kind of love spells I support are those that are there to make you more receptive to love.
Here's the deal kids... If you're not in a place where you can accept being loved.. what good is a fricking love spell? If you place your entire self worth on whether or not someone loves you, what do you REALLY need? Love, or fixing some things in your life? In my experience, those who do love spells and either get negative results or no results, are missing the cosmic clue-by-four.
Case in point.. and I use her because I can.... Phoenix made a WONDERFUL love candle. I know it's a wonderful love candle because it DID what it was SUPPOSED to do. She made a candle to help draw love into her life, and to make things in her life more open to love. Every time she lit it, an ex-boyfriend would call her up. Mind you.. not the ones that she sort of wished she would get back together with. The kind that she wished she could see squished under a semi truck, and then get to see the truck back up over them again. The kind she HATED. The kind she LOATHED ENTIRELY...
So why did it work, you ask? Isn't that a BAD thing you ask? No... and here's why. Everytime she lit the candle, she would close her eyes and ask the same thing "Goddess, clear my heart and prepare me to accept love. Allow love to find me without any snags or detours. Allow love to enter my life freely"
How can love... real love.. enter a life 'without snags or detours' or even 'freely' when there's still so much anger and hate attached to the people she had once cared about? And here's the catch... every time that phone rang.. the ex on the other end said the same thing... "I don't know if you remember me, but we dated.. and I treated you like crap... and I know it. I just wanted to say I'm sorry, and ask if you could forgive me."
Did she ask for that to happen? no. Did she force them to call her. No. But the calls always allowed the two people to patch things up so that no hard feelings were left. Closure was granted to both people, and eventually, Phoe didn't have a bad thing to say about any of her exs. She then was able to start meeting people who were good for her... and to her... and she's been married 3 years now.
Sometimes the result we get.. isn't the one we expect or want.. but more often, the one we need.
And in this... and only this way... will I support "love" spells. People wanting to obtain the love of a specific person should just get the nerve up to ask them point blank "Go out with me" and then DEAL with the answer and MOVE ON. Forcing people to love you with a love spell is no less than magickal rape.
Period.
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 12:46 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 3:41 pm
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Hmm... I think love spells barely are good. Few persons use love spells thinking neutral, because they are in love for someone else and passion is fire and fire changes us. I think a spell where you ask to the Gods to send you someone with this this and that characteristic without quote a specific name, it can be positive. But even thus I'm inclinated to think somethinks come naturally. Once Goddess told me "two right persons in the wrong time is just half right", and I agree with Her. I think before you want someone to love you, you should know yourself, learn to love yourself by the way you are, doing what you do, thinking what you think, being what you are. Everyone who ever asked me for love spells was trying to find someone to find ouside what they couldn't find inside themselves. When you love yourself, respect yourself and are proud of yourself for who you are, the Universe automatically puts someone nice in your life. If you're not ready yet, why should you want to run thinks? That's my opinion about this.
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 11:29 pm
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