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Kelly The Punk Rock Kid

PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 9:17 pm
What do you do if a friend is cutting themselves (and yes it actually is a friend, not me) and you can't think of any alternatives for them??? question  
PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 6:38 am
Exercising is good.
Writing and new hobbies.
I take all my anger out by getting tattoos and piercings but I realize most of the people in this guild are youngins so.
Basically, If you keep yourself busy with other things you dont think of doing it.  

Eri Luvs You
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Corpse_Bride_131

PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 1:21 pm
Some things to distract are talking to people, reading, drawing/painting, going for a jog, playing an instrument, ect.

One thing that actually works quite well in place of cutting is snapping a rubber band against your wrist. But this doesn't work for everyone, so don't be upset if it doesn't work for your friend.  
PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 1:26 pm
punching them in the face and telling them so ge tover themselves and not to be selfish  

The Dadalorian
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Shika.X

PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 9:19 pm
well as a cutter myself its very hard to stop but u can do it if u stick to them and and give them alternatives like taking a rubber band and instead of cutting themselves just when they feel the urge have them take the rubber band and pull it and snap it on there arm or wrist same pain no cut no death  
PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 8:22 am
try to be more with yer friend. and as all said here, find them a hobby.
maybe even meditation can be good.
and if all u hear is just emo and metal and songs like that, that can effect your mood. try lettin them hear happier songs..  

SuicidaI Fear


ffsghyanbh

PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 11:35 am
Find out what makes them sad.
Eliminate what makes them sad. Or help to do so.
I also suggest everything that has been mentioned, except for punching. I find it best to give advice based on what I would want if I was depressed, so don't do anything that would be annoying...
 
PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 5:10 pm
thank you guys for so much for your help. i'll talk to my friend as soon as possible. i think the rubber band idea is pretty good so i'll see if he'll do that. thanks again.  

Kelly The Punk Rock Kid


The Dadalorian
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 6:34 pm
SuicidaI Fear
try to be more with yer friend. and as all said here, find them a hobby.
maybe even meditation can be good.
and if all u hear is just emo and metal and songs like that, that can effect your mood. try lettin them hear happier songs..
never use metal and emo in the same sentence again  
PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:56 pm
Soviet Mudkipz
SuicidaI Fear
try to be more with yer friend. and as all said here, find them a hobby.
maybe even meditation can be good.
and if all u hear is just emo and metal and songs like that, that can effect your mood. try lettin them hear happier songs..
never use metal and emo in the same sentence again


KENNYYYYY YOU JUST DIID!!
oooooooooo!
Just kidding.  

Eri Luvs You
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Gambino Statue

PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 8:56 pm
Hobbies and distractions are nice as long as you remember issues don't go away just because you spend a while ignoring them.

I always draw all over my arms and legs. Makes you look like an idiot if you're not wearing sleeves but I always felt at least a bit of accomplishment by leaving a mark in pen.
 
PostPosted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 5:08 am
Soviet Mudkipz
SuicidaI Fear
try to be more with yer friend. and as all said here, find them a hobby.
maybe even meditation can be good.
and if all u hear is just emo and metal and songs like that, that can effect your mood. try lettin them hear happier songs..
never use metal and emo in the same sentence again

Besides last time I checked, most metal consists of; "******** you, I'm better then you, burn in hell, haha, you suck."

So you know, sing a long and its uplifting. ^^  

Rellik San
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Art Payment

PostPosted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 7:52 am
Find the reason, if any and try your best to help them over come it.
I think this will help more then a distraction, but if you can't fix the problem, you could try a distraction till you can fix the problem or it fixes it's self.  
PostPosted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 7:28 pm
Eri Luvs You
Soviet Mudkipz
SuicidaI Fear
try to be more with yer friend. and as all said here, find them a hobby.
maybe even meditation can be good.
and if all u hear is just emo and metal and songs like that, that can effect your mood. try lettin them hear happier songs..
never use metal and emo in the same sentence again


KENNYYYYY YOU JUST DIID!!
oooooooooo!
Just kidding.
but metal was placed before emo, which makes it okay  

The Dadalorian
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XXX Zombie Porn
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 7:52 am
Just let them kill themselves.  
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