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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 12:15 pm
Okay, so here is my story;;:
My parents have been fighting off and on for about a year and a half.
So two weeks ago my dad decides to tell my mom that hes been having a affair for over a year with a lady named Stephanie. I HATE HER. So then my mom wakes me up, and we all go into her room and lock the door.
My sister gets to sleep on the floor, but that is besides the point.
So the next day, we all wake up, my parents start fighting again, and my mom calls her friend who decides to take us to her house for a while.
We pack up some clothes and stuff that would last us a couple of days.
After staying over there a while, a couple more families head over to where we are. Then after a bit, they go to get some pizza.
When they come back, we enjoy some, then take off to a hotel.
At the hotel, we are not listed with them, so my dad can hopefully not find us.
Guess what happens ?
He finds us in the middle of the night, moves my mom's car, and calls my mom, my sister, me, and the hotel, over and over and over.
So when we wake up in the morning, we go get some food and bring it back to our room. Then when my mom tries to go to work, she sees that the car has been moved, and runs back inside, where she calls her friend.
Her friend then calls the cops on my dad.
The cops scare him off for a bit.
So my dad leaves, and we pack up our stuff, and get it in the car, and my dad comes back. He starts yelling for me and my sister.
We rush inside and The police officer says: "Step out of that car, or yell one more time, and I'll arrest you."
So my dad leaves and parks at a nearby Starbucks.
A cop follows him to make sure that he leaves, and guess what, he didn't.
So then the other cop comes over, and my dad blows his top, and hits the police officer.
Which basically means, jail for 12 hours.
And its Blue Monday, which means that if you don't pay, you stay.
Happens on the first Monday of ever month.
So my dad pays, and gets out at 11:50 pm that night.
And guess where we are ?
A safe place which we can't reveal to ANYONE.
Which we have been for the past 11 days.
So basically we were under a Order of Protection for the past weeks.
And now our dad can call/text us, but we don't have to answer/reply.
And yesterday, things got worse.
My mom filed a harassment case, and her work fires her, but will pay her money until the end of the month.
But they will pay her a lump sum of 20 thousand dollers to drop the case.
And she can ask for more money, which she is, and if she gets over 35 thousand, we all get new laptops. biggrin
And she wants to bring us to Massachusetts.
Where her family is.
But even as this happens, other things have happened, such as the following: My friend's parents got engaged, my friend invited me over for a sleepover (the same friend.), that same friend blew me off for a drive to Georgia to buy a new dog, my friend got that new dog, and it is a brown poodle, she is replacing the last dog she had, that got ran over by her neighbors.
And girl scout cookie sales are going on.
Sorry that took so long. >.<
And btw, my mom's lawyer kicks butt.
And we don't have internet, so we are at the public library for a little while, which we go to about 3 times a week.
If anyone wants to share their stories, or give me advice, and or say other things, please feel free to do so.
In the mean time, I need to check my email.
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 12:25 pm
 In one sense, there is no death. The life of a soul on Earth lasts long beyond it`s departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you. That spirit looking out of other's eyes, talking to you--in the familiar things they touched, worked with and loved. They live on in your life, and in the lives of all that knew them.
Quite honestly, I don`t know what to say.
I keep my personal experiences with my family in my journal, because repeating the situation over and over again really downs me.
In loving memory of Daniel, Catalina, Ryanne, Julianna, and Gayle, whose lives were cut short far too soon at Northern Illinois University on Valentines Day 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 12:28 pm
Simplistic-Tyranny In one sense, there is no death. The life of a soul on Earth lasts long beyond it`s departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you. That spirit looking out of other's eyes, talking to you--in the familiar things they touched, worked with and loved. They live on in your life, and in the lives of all that knew them.
Quite honestly, I don`t know what to say.
I keep my personal experiences with my family in my journal, because repeating the situation over and over again really downs me.
In loving memory of Daniel, Catalina, Ryanne, Julianna, and Gayle, whose lives were cut short far too soon at Northern Illinois University on Valentines Day 2008 I hardly believe it myself. Neither did my friends. >.< In the mean time. -rushes to your journal.-
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 1:18 pm
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 1:22 pm
There may be many worlds,
But they all share the same sky!
damn
that's pretty f-ed up
One sky...
One destiny...
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 7:28 pm
i want to tell you that i know how you feel. but i don't. so all i can say is that once you hit rock bottme the onley place to go is up. i belive that there is a reson for everything. and even thow all this is happening to you. there will be a reason for it. even if you kont know about it. and im allways willing to listen to whatever people have to say. enen if they don't want a responce back from me. if you ever need to just get it off your mind. send me a pm.
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 9:28 pm
Honestly my parents were never married which makes me a b*****d if you know what that is and on top of that my dad was cheating on my mom with my baby sitter turns out they got married one day after my birthday how ******** up is that on top of that my dad pushes me off on my step mom i feel like freakin cinderella all i do is clean and pick up after my damn dog which they treat better than me for real well i guess life just sucks for some people
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 11:31 pm
Quote: And yesterday, things got worse. My mom filed a harassment case, and her work fires her, but will pay her money until the end of the month. But they will pay her a lump sum of 20 thousand dollers to drop the case. Wait, was the harassment case filed for something at her work, or against your dad?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:19 am
Shrouded water. Strong willed and icy. Secretive and fierce. Shrouded by fire.
Wow. o_o That's a serious problem. I feel so bad for you. Once my mom and brother got in a fight and my parents got in a huger fight about it. But I really do hope your life gets better.
Scorpio. Magnetic, Elusive, Sexy, and Determined.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:28 am
eek my god,I'm sorry that happened to you.Hopefully thinsg will get better
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:22 am
im sorry about what had happened to your family. i hope you can pull through it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:07 pm
That's a rough one you had there, my dad is like that too when I was born. But he wouldn't hit a cop. But then again he tends to blow his top if we don't do something right. That happens all the time.
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:37 am
I would stand in line for this
Jesus Christ. You have my pity and hopes that everything gets better.
I`m glad my parents are just crazy in the weird sense, not the ISTALKYOU sense.
Good luck with getting the laptops though. xD
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 2:57 pm
Sugrie Quote: And yesterday, things got worse. My mom filed a harassment case, and her work fires her, but will pay her money until the end of the month. But they will pay her a lump sum of 20 thousand dollers to drop the case. Wait, was the harassment case filed for something at her work, or against your dad? Her work. Sorry about that. >.< Did I mention that its impossible to find internet when the library isn't open ? Well it is. Thats where we are right now. Thanks everyone for cheering me up some. At least other people have less exciting lives. I WANT THOSE LAPTOPS. GRAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh. We have these old ancient ones that we got from my dads work. About a year ago. :l
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:31 pm
I had to go through something like that when I was about 11. (Lol, a decade ago.) But it was basically the same thing. Parents splitting up and my dad going insane (If he wasn't already) and having to stay with my mom and siblings in a womens shelter for about 2 months. It was really hell since we weren't allowed to go outside of that fortress. We weren't even allowed to be on a different level than our mother so it was like a jail. (I just realized that the same shelter is about one block away from where I live now. O.o)
Anyway, after that we eventually found a place to live but my mother went through bad times and got into drinking heavily so most of my siblings and I got taken away and scattered through foster homes until we were older teenagers.
I'm still in touch with my dad even though I don't like him very much. My mom is better now and is taking care of our littler siblings. So... What I'm trying to say is that times get hard but everything will be alright in the end. And if you ever find yourself thinking that it's not alright then just remember that it means it's not the end.
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I finally got to see him! Most amazing thing ever!
Who knew something so little could be so clever?
