how could he do this to me?

[MargieMe]

well about a four months ago or so i lost my virginity to my now ex boyfriend. and then about a month later we did it again. i was drunk both times i did it with him and i dont remember anything. he told me time and time again that the sex was great and so on and that he had fun. i was thrilled that i lost it to him, cause hes a great guy and i didnt mind saying i gave my virginity to him.
well, or so i thought.
he hadnt had any contact with me for about a month now and out of the blue he calls me. he tells me that even though he had me under the impresison that we did it, neither of the two times did we. he says the first time he wasn't sure and he didnt go all the way with me. he also said the second time he felt me up but wasnt sure enough of himself to go all the way.
i dont mind that he didnt want to. but did he really have to lie to me about it? i mean seriously, why lie about it. all this time ive gone on believing that i lost my virginity to him and ive told my friends and stuff. and now im gonna look like a liar. this is just great. what am i supposed to do now?  

[Ghost1124]

sorry to hear that  

[Missflew_14]

It sounds like he's using you. D: You shouldn't put up with that. Don't get drunk when he's around. And plus if you two had sex when you were drunk, that's called rape -_-

 

[aikoislost]

awww thats hard.
dear, in the first place,you could have said no.  

[Rellik San]

Sounds like you should go to my bed and see what real sex is about. WOOF WOOF!  

[XChibi_ChaosX]

Thats terrible! It doesnt sound like you've done anything wrong. He's a jerk. Just leave him!  

[Sailor Wynne luvs Danny]

XChibi_ChaosX

Thats terrible! It doesnt sound like you've done anything wrong. He's a jerk. Just leave him!

I agree,but also on your part I think you should have told your friends I mean What happned to Kiss and NOT tell.I mean there are certains you should keep between you and ur ex. But thats just what I think  

[MargieMe]

Rellik San

Sounds like you should go to my bed and see what real sex is about. WOOF WOOF!

lol, thanks i guess?  

[MargieMe]

thanks to all the replies!  

[iloveedward9]

FallenSoul93

well about a four months ago or so i lost my virginity to my now ex boyfriend. and then about a month later we did it again. i was drunk both times i did it with him and i dont remember anything. he told me time and time again that the sex was great and so on and that he had fun. i was thrilled that i lost it to him, cause hes a great guy and i didnt mind saying i gave my virginity to him.
well, or so i thought.
he hadnt had any contact with me for about a month now and out of the blue he calls me. he tells me that even though he had me under the impresison that we did it, neither of the two times did we. he says the first time he wasn't sure and he didnt go all the way with me. he also said the second time he felt me up but wasnt sure enough of himself to go all the way.
i dont mind that he didnt want to. but did he really have to lie to me about it? i mean seriously, why lie about it. all this time ive gone on believing that i lost my virginity to him and ive told my friends and stuff. and now im gonna look like a liar. this is just great. what am i supposed to do now?

how could he do that. that is so so sad im so so so so sorry  

[DJ-KittenRawr]

Missflew_14

It sounds like he's using you. D: You shouldn't put up with that. Don't get drunk when he's around. And plus if you two had sex when you were drunk, that's called rape -_-

technically no.
He sounds like he wanted to have sex but had second thoughts.
Also, If you were drunk and you two actually had sex, it wouldn't be rape.
You can't rape the willing. :]  

[DJ-KittenRawr]

Also, i'm sorry that this happened to you.
But, there's more fishies in the swimming pool.
:]  

[Candy Fornication]

Even if you guys really did have.
Apparently it wasn't good enough to remember.
I always remember good sex, even if I'm s**t faced wasted.

That was an extremely big d**k thing to do.
I would be like "I remember seeing it. And it wasn't worth losing my virginity to."
Basically just tell your friends that dude is a liar & he tricked you.
They will hopefully believe you.
And if they don't at least you know the truth, & thats really all that matters.  

[D-JAY-227]

damn im so sorry but fucc him he dosnt deserve u he sounds like a jerk and you sound like a nice girl  

[Nymphetamine-x]

Don't know what to tell ya. Other than GUYS ARE JERKS!!!!


Ok only most guys. Some are pretty cool. biggrin
But guys who lie to you and use you for s**t, yeah. They're no good.