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Posted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:51 am
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Hooboy, this is a toughie. Okay, sorry about this teen drama guys, but here goes.
A couple of years ago two of my friends started dating, and a couple of days ago they broke up. This, of course, really hurt the girl emotionally. Now both of them are still my friends, but the girl now wants to go out with me. I'm bi and just not attracted to her, and she's home in Minnesota, and I'm in college in California. I really don't want to hurt again, but I don't want to be tied to her, either. Any advice?
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Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 12:10 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:33 am
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 3:51 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 4:38 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:09 pm
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Posted: Sun May 31, 2009 12:51 pm
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Posted: Sun May 31, 2009 2:31 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 3:20 pm
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Haha well I may be a little late on the opinion of what you should do posting, but hey, I'll give it a go!
Honestly, I think you should tell her that you can be there for her as a friend, but nothing more. If she needs to talk ever or needs a friend, you're there! And hey, offer to do things for her. If you can send her a card or some flowers or something, or do something else for her, show her that you do care for her, but you're not attracted. Just sit and talk to her about the whole thing really. Humans are the supposed better species so tell her that she's special and make her feel better 3nodding
Also, not that this relates to anything, but I have a friend who said he was bi but he was never attracted to women. Now he's a full gay. You might want to check under your cap to see if you still have an attraction to women. Sometimes you may see that your car parts have changed whee Go out and explore!
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Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2009 8:06 am
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