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Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2009 8:24 pm
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(This mostly has to do with encounters with Christians, obviously. xD;; I've never had this exchange with someone who was pagan or something. But maybe someone else has, I dunno?)
When you mention you're an atheist, and people say this to you, what do you do? How does it make you feel? How do you respond inwardly and outwardly?
It's awkward for me. I'm never sure what to say.
Honestly, it's a well-meaning statement; when you tell a Christian that you're an atheist, a lot of them honestly believe and fear that you're hellbound. Dx There's no way, sans deconversion, to dispel that fear. I've seen this from the other side of the fence.
I feel uncomfortable about it sometimes; I have very close friends who are deeply religious and seem honestly concerned about the state of my soul. I don't want them to worry about it, but I'm not going to pretend to convert or anything just for their benefit. That'd just be dishonest.
I don't want to offend, but such a statement puts me in a weird position. I can't say "Don't worry," because it means nothing to them. I can't say, "Thank you," because that may set a precedent for them to try and re-convert me. I can't say, "Don't say that," because really, it's not like they meant any harm.
On the other hand, I think it can seem a little patronizing, depending on their delivery, like if you've been in an argument and they're trying to sound all righteous and holier-than-thou.
Thoughts? Experiences?
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Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2009 8:45 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2009 11:56 pm
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I've been told this, namely by friends, so I don't have the heart to tell them not to. However, the one time I was going to be prayed for, I said "Don't, if there is a God, he will not help me. Not because he doesn't love me, but because I wouldn't except any help. I need to do this on my own. It isn't supposed to be easy and there are no free passes in life. Just, don't."
That left them relatively stunned.
To put this into context, I was not laying into a guy I had just had a conversation with. I was in a restaurant with a friend, telling him I was trying to quit smoking. This helpful fellow was at the table across from us, and popped that little tidbit into our conversation. I think it was justified.
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Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2009 11:56 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:00 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:04 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 3:42 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:55 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:52 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 2:06 pm
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D i v i n i t y dl1371 i hate it when they say that, its like they think that there is something wrong with you and what if we dont want to be prayed for, ever heard of free will? Lol, well you have to realize that they really do think there is something wrong with us. They believe that we don't "see the light" and [a good handful of them] think that we're just blinded by naturalistic science and that we are ignorant. Also, you can't be too harsh on them for praying for you because they honestly believe that you're destined for horrible things and they want to somehow help. Even if you don't want to be prayed for, it's not against your free will for someone to pray for you. I may not want my friends wasting their time praying for me, but it is their own free will to decide to pray for me if they really want to. but they also believe that for god, making us atheist was because we are bad people and we deserve to be punished or if you're from that website(truechristian.com/atheist) then you think that we're demons from satan
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 7:11 pm
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dl1371 D i v i n i t y dl1371 i hate it when they say that, its like they think that there is something wrong with you and what if we dont want to be prayed for, ever heard of free will? Lol, well you have to realize that they really do think there is something wrong with us. They believe that we don't "see the light" and [a good handful of them] think that we're just blinded by naturalistic science and that we are ignorant. Also, you can't be too harsh on them for praying for you because they honestly believe that you're destined for horrible things and they want to somehow help. Even if you don't want to be prayed for, it's not against your free will for someone to pray for you. I may not want my friends wasting their time praying for me, but it is their own free will to decide to pray for me if they really want to. but they also believe that for god, making us atheist was because we are bad people and we deserve to be punished or if you're from that website(truechristian.com/atheist) then you think that we're demons from satan
TrueChristian is satire. As in, a joke. Not real. xD
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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:46 pm
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dl1371 D i v i n i t y dl1371 i hate it when they say that, its like they think that there is something wrong with you and what if we dont want to be prayed for, ever heard of free will? Lol, well you have to realize that they really do think there is something wrong with us. They believe that we don't "see the light" and [a good handful of them] think that we're just blinded by naturalistic science and that we are ignorant. Also, you can't be too harsh on them for praying for you because they honestly believe that you're destined for horrible things and they want to somehow help. Even if you don't want to be prayed for, it's not against your free will for someone to pray for you. I may not want my friends wasting their time praying for me, but it is their own free will to decide to pray for me if they really want to. but they also believe that for god, making us atheist was because we are bad people and we deserve to be punished or if you're from that website(truechristian.com/atheist) then you think that we're demons from satan
Well, I think it's important to understand how you define "bad", or how they define it rather... I have Christian friends who will often make compliments and call other people "good people" but I have some that will devoutly profess that "we're all bad. Only God is good." If the latter is the case then I guess it's not so bad if they think we're bad haha. As for the common definition of "bad", I don't think (but I'm not sure) that many Christians regard us as "bad" people. I think they see us more as "blinded and ignorant" people who deserve to be punished for being, as many of them would say, "willfully ignorant" and/or "defiant towards God". It's sad that many of them believe that we will be damned to hell for simply NOT worshiping and believing in their God because we sincerely believe that there is no good evidence and that we are simply trying to be rational and pursue objective truth.
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 11:04 am
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 1:13 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 1:58 pm
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Miz Sharpe dl1371 D i v i n i t y dl1371 i hate it when they say that, its like they think that there is something wrong with you and what if we dont want to be prayed for, ever heard of free will? Lol, well you have to realize that they really do think there is something wrong with us. They believe that we don't "see the light" and [a good handful of them] think that we're just blinded by naturalistic science and that we are ignorant. Also, you can't be too harsh on them for praying for you because they honestly believe that you're destined for horrible things and they want to somehow help. Even if you don't want to be prayed for, it's not against your free will for someone to pray for you. I may not want my friends wasting their time praying for me, but it is their own free will to decide to pray for me if they really want to. but they also believe that for god, making us atheist was because we are bad people and we deserve to be punished or if you're from that website(truechristian.com/atheist) then you think that we're demons from satan
TrueChristian is satire. As in, a joke. Not real. xD i realize that, but ive met some people who think its actually not a satire
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