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 Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 1:56 pm
Um... sweatdrop Whenever I don't do what he wants, he gets mad. What do I do?
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 2:18 pm
Tell him to grow up dramallama
Seriously though, if he ever hits you, or threatens you, don't hide it, get some help(for both you and him)
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 2:21 pm
thats what we like to call a control freak... Control freaks know no specific gender, but should be avoided at all costs...
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 6:53 pm
^ ^ i agree with both of them
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:10 pm
tell him no or else its over between u and him
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:47 pm
you just shouldnt be with him then
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Tumbling Stars Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 8:55 pm
How mad does he get? He doesn't physically touch you, does he?
Tell him that he needs to cool down...and if he doesn't, end the relationship. Your happiness and safety comes first.
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:12 pm
UM OK I TOLD MY BESTEST FRIEND MY SECRET ABOUT THIS BOY NAMED JACK--THAT I LIKE HIM ----- COUPLE WEEKS L8TER JACK STARTED AVOIDING ME AND STOPED TALKING TO ME SO I WENT TO ASK GINNY((MY BESTEST FRIEND)) SO AS WE WERE PASSING SECRETS SHE BLURTED OUT THE REASON WHY HE'S AVOIDING ME IS BECAUSE SHE TOLD HIM THAT I LIKED HIM!!!!!!!!!! I MEAN HOW MEAN OF HER TO DO THAT SHE SAID SHE TOLD HIM BECAUSE I BLAMED HER OH STEALING FROM ME ((AS IT TURNS OUT SHE WAS STEALING FROM ME!!!! AT LEAST $200 WORTH OF STUFF GONE SHE SOLD IT TO OTHER PPL!!)) ANYWAY I GOT PISSED AND SHE WENT HOME----- BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH JACK HOW DO I CONFRONT HIM MAKE HIM BELIEVE THAT I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND!!!??----NOT REALLY THOU-- P.S I WENT THRU HIS TEXT JUST CUZ HE LET ME AND HE TOLD OTHER PPL ABOUT ME LIKEING HIM!!
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:34 pm
To Clover_IceQueen: All the advice above ^is great, specially the >>happiness ad safety comes first<< very true.If he only gets mad without any physical stuff then try to talk and tell him he cant always get what he wants and like the girls above me said^ tell him to grow up,or end the relationship,so yeahh.
And to Bloodspill_Blackblood: something like that happened to me,I told a friend that I had a crush on this guy and the next thing I knew the guy I liked started to avoid me(this guy and I are classmates and we get along really good)so I went to my friend and asked her if she had told him and she obviously said no,but well I soon found out she did anyways.But my point is that well since my crush started avoiding me and stuff, I started to avoid him too,like a way of showing him that it was just a crush and that I just wanted to be friends,luckily he got the message and now we talk again but there's still this awkwardness in between so I guess my advice to you is to let him know you dont want anything serious and that you just want to be friends(even if its not completely true),but be sure to give out the message right.So I hope the advice helps you.good luck ^_^
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:13 pm
If he really treats you like that then he either:
A) Doesn't know how to show feelings.
B) Doesn't really care about you.
OR>>>>
C) He's just emotionally unstable, and confused with himself.
You should talk it over with him and see if he's doing this because of you, or because of himself. I would give him another chance and if it doesn't work out, I would end it.
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Tumbling Stars Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 6:43 pm
Bloodspill_Blackblood UM OK I TOLD MY BESTEST FRIEND MY SECRET ABOUT THIS BOY NAMED JACK--THAT I LIKE HIM ----- COUPLE WEEKS L8TER JACK STARTED AVOIDING ME AND STOPED TALKING TO ME SO I WENT TO ASK GINNY((MY BESTEST FRIEND)) SO AS WE WERE PASSING SECRETS SHE BLURTED OUT THE REASON WHY HE'S AVOIDING ME IS BECAUSE SHE TOLD HIM THAT I LIKED HIM!!!!!!!!!! I MEAN HOW MEAN OF HER TO DO THAT SHE SAID SHE TOLD HIM BECAUSE I BLAMED HER OH STEALING FROM ME ((AS IT TURNS OUT SHE WAS STEALING FROM ME!!!! AT LEAST $200 WORTH OF STUFF GONE SHE SOLD IT TO OTHER PPL!!)) ANYWAY I GOT PISSED AND SHE WENT HOME----- BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH JACK HOW DO I CONFRONT HIM MAKE HIM BELIEVE THAT I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND!!!??----NOT REALLY THOU-- P.S I WENT THRU HIS TEXT JUST CUZ HE LET ME AND HE TOLD OTHER PPL ABOUT ME LIKEING HIM!! Well obviously she isn't a true friend. Just tell whatever his name is that "You know, you might've gotten confused, but I don't like you." And if she did steal from you, sue her.
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Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 6:59 pm
Talk To Him About How You Feel.If He Doesnt Understand,He Isnt A Good Boyfriend.If He Isnt A Good Boyfriend,Then Find Someone Who Will Treat You Right.
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Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2010 10:38 pm
That`s over the line. If he doesn`t change yet, you should dump him. And if he starts hurting you, ohh get some help girl. smile I`ve had a relationship like this before, I tried doing the things that this person wants but then when I wasn`t able to please him, I was left. crying Anywaay. If he isn`t the right guy for you, the relationship would break. But don`t you worry, there`s always the right guy. smile
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Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2010 8:09 pm
You're not his servant make it clear from the beginning
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Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2010 10:47 pm
uh just tell the dude that you cant always do whatever he wants you to do. if he loves you he wouldnt get mad over stuff like that...if this advice doesnt work, im sorry.im not good at giving advice....
to Bloodspill_Blackblood:
thats happened to me before i had a huge crush on this dude in fifth grade, and i told my so called bestfriends that i did...TWO minutes later, they decided to tell him that. it got really awkward between the two of us, but its gone now. what i did was tell him that they were only joking and that it was all a whole misunderstanding.and it worked...
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