Sometimes I wonder if my friends are really "my friends". Of course we all hang out with each other, but lately I've been feeling left out. Two of my friends, M and S, are going to a concert of our favorite band with Five tickets. S had to invite N since N is short and she couldn't really see the last time S and N went. So there's three. And then S and M wanted to invite me, but N wanted to invite H because "H was a really big fan." So N invited H without telling S and M and now I cant go. The fifth ticket went to S's mom since they needed an adult to go with them. Now I'm thinking that N doesnt really like me.. and I feel left out. And all of them went to J's party, when I've known J for 4 years. I thought J was my friend too.. But.. sad Has anything like this ever left you considering your friends? Because these are the friends I mostly hang out with. . .
Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 6:36 pm
Sometimes I really don't consider my friends as ''friends'' We have our differences, but we eliminate, and set aside our fights, our differences, whatever it is.
Things happen. We all feel left out sometimes, but have we disregarded the differences? Are they really your friends? Don't abandon your friends over a silly situation like that. Have a talk with them. Tell them how you feel. I can't tell you to remain friends with them, or remain friends with them, I can't control your life, but maybe you have over- looked the situation.
Yes,Ive Had The Same Thing Happen.Things Happen Sometimes Though.But Ask Yourself These Questions:
Are My Friends There For Me?Through Good And Bad? When We Get Into Fights,Whose The First To Say Sorry? Do They Treat Me Well?
You Cant Always Hang Out With Your Friends,There Will Be Other Times To Hang Out.And If You Feel Left Out,Talk To Them About It.If They Are True Friends They Will Understand How You Feel And Will Try Not To Leave You Out Anymore.If They Dont Seem Like Friendship-Material.Hang Out With Other People Who Are Friendship-Material.There Are More People In The World,Not Just The People You Hang Out With Currently.
Posted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 7:16 pm
I don't hold on to friends for very long cause of past issues.