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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 2:53 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 2:55 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 3:38 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 4:05 pm
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Posted: Wed May 19, 2010 5:01 am
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I noticed it's been over a month since anyone responded to this, so I hope it's not to late.
I am willing to be your friend. Right now. You and me both, hun, have dealt with this type of person. And, I'm not sure if I should be giving you advice, since I still have my own problems to resolve. But, I'll try my best.
No fighting. Sorry, but that's not the way to go for two reasons. 1) You'll get in trouble, if not with the school, then with your parents. 2) She gets to be the victim. Everyone will feel sorry for her, and she'll ham it up, make you the bad guy here.
The best thing I think you could do is just break it off. Tell straight up you'rer sick of her ways, and if she's going move in on your guy, and pick on people, she's not the type of person you want to be friends with. It will be hard. I have no doubts about that. But, over time, things will smooth out, and you and your friend will be able to pass each other in the hall and act as if nothing had ever happened.
But, if you want to give her a second chance, great. I applaide your forgiving heart, as should she. Explain to her that you really don't like it when she's flirting with your boyfriend. Because, ah hello? He's your boyfriend. She may not know she's doing it, but tell her she is, and that you can see it. And tell her to cut the lies, and to stop picking on people. It's wrong. If she's your friend, you should except her no matter what, so there should be no need to lie. And the picking on people part, well, just tell her to lay off.
She will get mad at you either way, I'm sure. But stick true to yourself, and doubt let her guilt you, or manipulate you in any way. Stay strong!
Hope this helped (and that I wasn't to late!) -Reku1495
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Posted: Wed May 19, 2010 10:32 am
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 5:41 pm
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I would recommend taking it slow. Next time she hits on your bf right in front of you drop not-so-subtle hints, almost joking. Like raise an eyebrow, smirk, and say something like "Uh, scuse me, but I think thats my boyfriend." The less obvious the flirting, the less obvious the anger behind your words needs to be. Of coarse, if she's being flat out desperate about it, then you probably don't have much to worry about! No guy wants a pushy girl! If she's really that persistant, tell her firmly but nicely that you two will not be friends anymore if this keeps up, and tell her exactly what shes doing wrong! Tell her everything, this could possably be a missunderstanding. It's a longshot, but don'y rule it out. Trust me, I've been on the reciving end of one of those, and it's not fun or fair to be wrongly accused of something. Once and if she's made it clear it isn't a misunderstanding, tell her to to just leave you and your bf alone!
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 9:35 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 3:29 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 3:35 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 14, 2010 3:03 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:29 am
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High-functioning Businesswoman
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 4:27 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 4:30 pm
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