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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 9:52 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 9:58 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:06 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:16 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:29 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:34 pm
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Oh. "...all right," she responded, though she couldn't help but frown a little at his response. The frown persisted as Rosie helped him up, and Sera's gaze couldn't help but shift to where her left hand should've been. There were very few ways she could help her friends, she thought, but talking was one of those few, and she didn't want to be denied one of the only ways she felt she could help. The thought didn't sit well with her in the least - she wanted to help, but she didn't think she could do very much to actually do so.
"Well," she started a little hesitantly as she moved to sit up on the bed too, "I can talk to Rosie and you can just listen if you want to instead." That said, she shifted her focus to the blonde and asked, "Did I ever tell you how I felt after my accident?"
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 10:49 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 11:02 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 11:34 pm
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Leaving Luke to his thoughts for the time being, Sera shifted her gaze to the floor instead, idly dragging her toes across the carpet. "That's because I didn't want to talk about it at all for so long," she admitted. "It was so awful and terrible, and probably the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with before, and I didn't have any idea how to deal with it to begin with, which just made it harder to deal with."
Her pale eyes drifted to her remaining hand and the space where her other hand used to be, the former with its fingers spread out. "It was like..." Her brows furrowed as she tried to think of how to word it right. "Like everything was fine before, and I thought everything would continue to be just fine like always - but suddenly something horrible happened because of two cars and I didn't even have a chance to realize at the time what had even happened. I didn't realize what happened until after, and I didn't know until after that because of what happened, suddenly everything was different. Everything. Nothing was the same anymore and it never would be ever again. Because of what happened, suddenly everything hurt and I couldn't do anything anymore." Her brow remained furrowed as she frowned down at her hand, remembering just how she'd tried to handle that whole thing. It hadn't been well - not at all. It was even still a difficult subject to speak of, and if she didn't think Luke would benefit from hearing it then there was no way she'd even be telling it to either of them right now. "I needed help with so many things because I couldn't do them by myself anymore - and they were all things I could do perfectly fine by myself before. Everything I ever did for myself I took for granted, I never even thought about any of that until suddenly I couldn't do any of it anymore. It was pretty much the worst feeling ever in my life," she admitted with a sigh, taking a couple moments to try and figure out how to phrase things, and also to try and quell the discomfort welling up in the pit of her stomach at remembering so horrible a thing that had taken her so long to deal with - and she hadn't even finished dealing with it yet.
"It was an awful feeling, especially because my right shoulder was still recovering from being shot, so even though that hand was fine, the shoulder and arm weren't, so I couldn't even use them anyway. Sometimes I felt like life was mocking me or something - throwing something so terrible at me when I hadn't even recovered from the last thing. I remember I'd always try to do everything myself, everything I could do just fine before, but I had so much trouble with practically all of it at first, and it was really, really depressing. That's why I didn't talk to you guys much, and why I started ignoring my phone and not charging it," she admitted, her hand moving to fidget with the hem of her jeans along her knee. s**t, why had she started telling all of this? God dammit. "It was just so depressing that I couldn't do anything I used to do just fine by myself - it made me feel like such s**t. I felt useless because I couldn't do anything by myself, I needed help with things and I just couldn't not be upset about it. It was just..." She trailed off and paused again to frown down at her knees, regretting starting to talk about this to begin with but also trying to figure out how to continue. She had started this, and as stubborn as she was she had every intention of finishing it.
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 11:39 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 12:28 am
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Rosie's look gave her even more pause, but she quickly returned her gaze to her knees once more, feeling even more uncomfortable about the whole thing. Talking about her feelings and emotions was something she did very rarely, mostly because it made her uncomfortable but also because some of the topics were just so painful or too recent to be able to talk about. Still, she'd started it, and relating a similar experience and a similar feeling honestly, to her, felt like the only way she could actually even help Luke in any way. In her mind, it was the least she could do, and a little discomfort now would mean little if it would help him at all. Except it was kind of more than just a little discomfort at this point. "Like... Right after it happened, I guess I kind of just didn't believe it. Like it had to have been a bad dream or something, a nightmare I guess," she said with a small shrug. "After I finally stopped hoping it was all some awful nightmare, it made me really angry and upset. Everything did, actually," she amended after a moment, then continued, "Everything did, no matter if it should've or not. Most things shouldn't have, but I was just so angry that it happened and that everything was so different and I couldn't do anything myself anymore, it just made me so frustrated and upset and just completely pissed off. I remember I yelled a lot, mostly at Mother or my pokemon," she admitted with some amount of guilt, though she neglected to add the screaming, crying fits she and her mother had had during that period of mourning. "I remember I tried not to look at that arm at all. If I could see it, then it made me remember everything and that just upset me even more, but if I couldn't see it then I could pretend that everything was fine, the way it was before. That's why I kept wearing hoodies at first, because I could hide it with long sleeves."
"After that, I still didn't use my phone much and I hardly saw anyone because I just... got so depressed," the girl admitted with another small shrug, her gaze wholly focused on her knees as her fingers continued to fidget with the fabric so she could at least have one neutral thing to concentrate on while expounding something that was quite the opposite of neutral. "I got really depressed and sad, I cried a lot, I did a hell of a lot of nothing. I even gave up trying to do things myself because my arm still hurt too much and everything was so hard, I thought it was impossible. There were some days I just wanted to lay in bed all day and not get up because I kept thinking 'what's the point? I can't do anything anyway, I just need help with everything and I'm a bother to everyone and it'd just be better for everyone if I just didn't get up in the first place.' It just felt really awful, like I felt like such a useless person... But Mother made me get up and go out sometimes anyway, and I saw a few people and some convinced me to go out even though I just wanted to do nothing," like Nate and all of his whining over his birthday, "and it.. actually helped a little. Not much at first, really, but I started feeling better after that."
After a brief pause to catch her breath and to feel a little better as she moved onto more positive things, she continued, "I didn't feel as indifferent and uhh..." What was the word? Oh, right. "Apathetic about everything anymore. I started trying to do things myself more and I found out that I had just needed to wait and be patient about doing things myself. Once my shoulder was healed and my arm didn't hurt as much, it was a lot easier to do more things myself that I thought I couldn't do anymore, like putting contacts in and opening jars and a few other things I can't remember off the top of my head. I mean, it was really frustrating at the time, trying to do some of them without any help because it's really hard to do things with just one hand, so it took a while to figure out how to do things differently than how I'd always done them before, with two hands. With everything I started being able to do by myself again, I think I finally realized that until then I'd only been thinking about the things I couldn't do, and not any of the things I could do, which was actually a lot more things than I thought I could. I mean, there's always gonna be things I can't do myself now, like do cartwheels or count on both hands or get heavy things down from high places, and other stuff like that, but that's okay," she went on with yet another shrug as she raised her gaze to Rosie and, briefly, to Luke. "I think I'm mostly used to it now and I don't mind it nearly as much. Sometimes I still get sad or depressed about it, but it usually doesn't last too long and then I'm fine again. It took a long time," read: more than a week, "to get back to doing as much as I could by myself again, and to feel better about everything and get used to how different everything is now. I mean... I don't think I'm completely better yet, but mostly? I dunno," another shrug, this one coupled with a slightly exasperated tone, "it's weird and hard to explain. But, uh, anyway, that's pretty much about it," she finished lamely. Holy hell that was a lot of talking; way more than she'd expected to. Maybe... ah. "Really freakin' long story short, it sucked for a long time but now things are mostly fine and I can do lots of stuff myself again, it just took a while." There.
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 6:58 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:09 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:12 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:30 pm
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