On the subject of dating and marriage

[wiim]

Though our ego/pride is well-known amongst ourselves, I'm sure a lot of other people dislike rejection.

I think I prefer to be asked because I'm not a person who takes the initiative, in general things as well as asking. xd

However, I feel sometimes that I have to be the one to ask depending on the personality of the other.  

[Cat-Whiskers]

Darkaznstargoddess

Simple question for everyone.
Do you preffer to ask or do you preffer the other person to ask?

For me its the other person asking, if I was allowed to date of course. Most of the guys tend to give me mixed signals so I'm not sure most of the time what they are thinking or if they like me even. Plus I hate rejection.
I probally wouldn't show my face for awhile.
(The chinese pride/ego problem.)

What I prefer? I prefer people ask me, so much simpler, saves me the energy and time. (Yes, I'm that lazy)

In reality though? I'd rather do the asking, simply because I can't say no to people, and if some girl asks me out I would always say yes even if I don't like that person... and then everything goes bad, someone cries, I feel bad, she feels bad, everyone feels bad, there will be a huge mess to be cleaned up afterwards, friends feel awkward, things go wacko, everyone will be uncomfortable... etc. etc. etc. (yes this happened before, you think?! sue me stare )

So yes, moral of the story: Breaking hearts is never easy, so choose wisely scream And oh, it's always hard to dump people (for me anyways), so don't do it too often wink  

[traya sakurazukamori]

my dad wanted me to marry a boy who's father was big time company. the boy was a pervert!! and a bad boy freind. stressed

but i met a american guy. he is very strange and yet he saved me many times whee redface 3nodding my mother acepted him my dad is stilll well he is almost acepting him.  

[Minielf]

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?  

[traya sakurazukamori]

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.  

[wiim]

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool  

[traya sakurazukamori]

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

actully he is greedy and cares for no one....thats why the guy i am dating now helped me get out. i wounder now what he did to get me out for good...i mean these people dont like to lose and always go on a revange spree and such....but i havnt heard nor seen them...oh well the fact that i am being protected make me ease a little...  

[wiim]

miko_rachel

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

actully he is greedy and cares for no one....thats why the guy i am dating now helped me get out. i wounder now what he did to get me out for good...i mean these people dont like to lose and always go on a revange spree and such....but i havnt heard nor seen them...oh well the fact that i am being protected make me ease a little...

It sounds like your current lover has power. POWER!! rofl  

[Nyanfood]

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

I was in a gang called the "wolves" in third grade. It was a sexist gang, so we supported girls. And there's another gang that supported the boys. It was kinda funny. We tried to beat the other gang at helping teachers and with grades during school. At recess we would keep each other off our own turfs, which was a space by a wooden fence... I was the most effective fighter, as I threatened to hug them if they didn't get off our space, and I did, once. But I ended up getting hit on the head anyway. ^^ I was stupid.

Anyway, now I'm older, and I still keep boys at bay, fist and sword. Using teeth if neccessary... too many boys here like asians!!! scream I have to go and hide under a ROCK!!!!!!! bye *hides under rock*  

[tamcharles]

Riyoku Sakimori

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

I was in a gang called the "wolves" in third grade. It was a sexist gang, so we supported girls. And there's another gang that supported the boys. It was kinda funny. We tried to beat the other gang at helping teachers and with grades during school. At recess we would keep each other off our own turfs, which was a space by a wooden fence... I was the most effective fighter, as I threatened to hug them if they didn't get off our space, and I did, once. But I ended up getting hit on the head anyway. ^^ I was stupid.

Anyway, now I'm older, and I still keep boys at bay, fist and sword. Using teeth if neccessary... too many boys here like asians!!! scream I have to go and hide under a ROCK!!!!!!! bye *hides under rock*

LoL, it's the Asian invasion! razz I remember those days when I was a kid, it's good to know that the ol' gender segregation is still alive and kickin'.  

[kyoslove74]

draven_heart

You are asian. What do your parents say about dating some one that is not asian? So do you think your parents disapprove of you dating or to marry someone that is not asian?

my parents disaporve of dating until I am out fo college and they do not like americans so they do nto want me to date or marry an american  

[Tokioka]

Same for me, but my mum is planning for me to date one of her friend's daughters... eek
Sheesh, can't parents just leave us alone - or is it just a chinese thing?  

[kyoslove74]

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

your from hong kong
eek oh my god I am from hong kong
oo how are the gangs from hong kong like?  

[kyoslove74]

wiim

miko_rachel

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

actully he is greedy and cares for no one....thats why the guy i am dating now helped me get out. i wounder now what he did to get me out for good...i mean these people dont like to lose and always go on a revange spree and such....but i havnt heard nor seen them...oh well the fact that i am being protected make me ease a little...

It sounds like your current lover has power. POWER!! rofl

its sounds like your current guy is one really great knight saving his princess from evil, this is like a fairy tale, it is so romantic
starts saydreaming  

[kyoslove74]

Riyoku Sakimori

wiim

miko_rachel

Minielf

So I'm guessing you live in America right? And the boy whom your father's friend pledged you to marry was a Chinese?

yepers, i live an america. and yes he was chinese. he was in a gang called red dragon altogh there nothing like the gangs in hong kong.

I don't think it's good to be in any kind of gang, wherever it's located. ...Unless it's a non-profit gang who volunteers in community service. cool

I was in a gang called the "wolves" in third grade. It was a sexist gang, so we supported girls. And there's another gang that supported the boys. It was kinda funny. We tried to beat the other gang at helping teachers and with grades during school. At recess we would keep each other off our own turfs, which was a space by a wooden fence... I was the most effective fighter, as I threatened to hug them if they didn't get off our space, and I did, once. But I ended up getting hit on the head anyway. ^^ I was stupid.

Anyway, now I'm older, and I still keep boys at bay, fist and sword. Using teeth if neccessary... too many boys here like asians!!! scream I have to go and hide under a ROCK!!!!!!! bye *hides under rock*

I know the guyes think that us asians are hot