TifaBea
I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and I still haven't had sex with him. I'm a virgin and so I'm kind of afraid... To lose it and other reasons. Also, he is a virgin. Any advice or anything?
Well, I'm not gonna say that these WILL happen, but they are very likely.
1) Odds are that the first person you sleep with you will become infatuated with and eventually dump for the need of something new.
2) The older you are the more serious the relationship with your first time, so the likely break up is even harder.
3) People usually go through a sexual faze after they break up with their first, and the older your new partners are the more lilely you are to get an STD (since they've had more time to sleep with more people).
4) The older you are the more likely you are to get married, and if you haven't had much experience, you are very likely to get a husband that will become sexually unsatisfied, and may even pursue a mistress. A lot of divorces are from sexual dissatisfaction.
I just think if you found someone that you be with for that long, you may as well do it before you build it up so huge in your head that it becomes weird. Remember, sex is natural, and in most cases, inevitable. So relax. Enjoy it, but just be safe and smart. biggrin
