Owwin
From what I understand love is a hard game of trial and error J. If you like what you feel when you are in love you shouldn't give up on it. It just takes time to find the right person, and even longer to build a strong relationship with them.
Also you can't lose someone as influential as a grandmother or a great uncle. Even if you aren't religious you gotta understand that every person we come in contact with in our lives changes us. Your consciousness was forever changed by the contact you had with your loved ones. The grief you are suffering is simply you coming to terms with their life ending, but the influence of their lives on your conscience will not be in vain if you use what you learned from them to be a better person.
If you measure someone by the lives they touched, then how do you want to measure your loved ones, in grief or in the lessons you learned form them? Simply live, and their influence will live on inside you.
Also you can't lose someone as influential as a grandmother or a great uncle. Even if you aren't religious you gotta understand that every person we come in contact with in our lives changes us. Your consciousness was forever changed by the contact you had with your loved ones. The grief you are suffering is simply you coming to terms with their life ending, but the influence of their lives on your conscience will not be in vain if you use what you learned from them to be a better person.
If you measure someone by the lives they touched, then how do you want to measure your loved ones, in grief or in the lessons you learned form them? Simply live, and their influence will live on inside you.
Copy pasted into my personal pick me up quotes. biggrin
Also Its just so difficult to come to terms with it. I mean, as a religious man, im glad that the suffering for them is done. Sigh.
Freaking life. STOP HAPPENING! stare
