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Moonlight Agony

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roboCaim

ok she is my GF and well she is going some where and she won't be able to talk to me for a really long time so she is telling me to break up with her because she can't do it. But i can't either i really lover her but i dont want her to go. so i need help to convince to stay

Moonlight Agony is right, although I'd be very impressed if it lasted a year. Generally within about four weeks any connection that survived the intitial seperation is gone.

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I was speaking more so from my own experience, it took about a year but now I can think of things we did and feel good and not upset.

It might be noted that this girl I was with for almost 5 years, so it took sometime.

Yes... i suspect this is not the case with OP.
5 years is longer than most gaians can manage. You're an exception.

Most likely, the OP and this girl have not even been together a year. A few months at most. That seems to be the amount of time I've noticed with most poeple who are all: "Omg! She's moving awaqy I'm gonna kill myself! I'll never find another girl like her! I can't go on!"  

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xXxCrimson_ShadowxXx

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Moonlight Agony

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roboCaim

ok she is my GF and well she is going some where and she won't be able to talk to me for a really long time so she is telling me to break up with her because she can't do it. But i can't either i really lover her but i dont want her to go. so i need help to convince to stay

Moonlight Agony is right, although I'd be very impressed if it lasted a year. Generally within about four weeks any connection that survived the intitial seperation is gone.

~exx

I was speaking more so from my own experience, it took about a year but now I can think of things we did and feel good and not upset.

It might be noted that this girl I was with for almost 5 years, so it took sometime.

Yes... i suspect this is not the case with OP.
5 years is longer than most gaians can manage. You're an exception.

Most likely, the OP and this girl have not even been together a year. A few months at most. That seems to be the amount of time I've noticed with most poeple who are all: "Omg! She's moving awaqy I'm gonna kill myself! I'll never find another girl like her! I can't go on!"

inorite?
I can understand struggling with extreme depression/suicidal thoughts when someone you can legitimately refer to as your life partner or whatever is dying/dies suddenly/leaves you in an incredibly hurtful way, using all their knowledge of you to conjure up the most hateful and hurtful sentence ever spoken.
Beyond those rather unlikely circumstances, I really don't see how suicide threats over a breakup or similar could be anything other than blackmail or pleas for attention.  

[roboCaim]

thanks all of you. i just know that if me and her were ment to be then she will come back. but mean while live life. also i could just stay with a friend or something but thanks again