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 Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:43 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:50 pm
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx Shannon Kyra Liannanon I heard that menopause sucks, though Blargh I don't have to deal with that for awhile though. Thank god.
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:05 pm
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx I don't know why? >.< (I feel like you're scolding me. Sir Papa Sage.) But condoms make me sick. And I don't want to use pills. I know. I know. I'm playing a risky game. v.v I should really stop. My boyfriend is at least trying to stop it, but I keep tempting him v.v ...I'm bad. And no, I wouldn't want a baby now... Well I would love one, but definitely not now. My bf and I are definitely not financial ready for something like that now. Well we might be, but we'd be struggling through. And everything seemed normal. I had no spotting in between. Nothing afterwards. It came and went like a normal period besides being early.
I view all my guildies as family, I care very deeply for my family. I just dont want to see them get hurt or get into bad situations. I care...so yeah Im okay playing the daddy figure if I have to...
Yeah, sounds a little bit like you are asking for one. Although Im not a fan of the pill there are some varietys which seem to be working well enough with relativly little side effects if taken properally. Also if you see a family planning clinic you could probally get some kind of discount. But I agree if you dont need them you shouldnt use them. Condoms make you sick? all kinds? do you have a latex allergy maybe? like does wearing rubber gloved make you sick? There are alternatives. And I know it can kill the heat of the moment. But yeah I just dont want to see your life suddenly change and you have to make decisions like, should we keep this baby, and if so how will be afford X, and if not...how will we cope with that. I know its not something you want to think about, but is something you should think about. And yeah its just because I care. I can understand if you dont want to be hearing any of this from me, and I can respect you telling me to stop. (I do know several friends who have had kids really young, and had to face many of those issues of it).
Interesting, not really sure there are a multitude of reasons why it could be that early. But yeah definitly best to get the docs opinion. |
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:17 pm
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Sagebomb I view all my guildies as family, I care very deeply for my family. I just dont want to see them get hurt or get into bad situations. I care...so yeah Im okay playing the daddy figure if I have to... Yeah, sounds a little bit like you are asking for one. Although Im not a fan of the pill there are some varietys which seem to be working well enough with relativly little side effects if taken properally. Also if you see a family planning clinic you could probally get some kind of discount. But I agree if you dont need them you shouldnt use them. Condoms make you sick? all kinds? do you have a latex allergy maybe? like does wearing rubber gloved make you sick? There are alternatives. And I know it can kill the heat of the moment. But yeah I just dont want to see your life suddenly change and you have to make decisions like, should we keep this baby, and if so how will be afford X, and if not...how will we cope with that. I know its not something you want to think about, but is something you should think about. And yeah its just because I care. I can understand if you dont want to be hearing any of this from me, and I can respect you telling me to stop. (I do know several friends who have had kids really young, and had to face many of those issues of it). Interesting, not really sure there are a multitude of reasons why it could be that early. But yeah definitly best to get the docs opinion.
heart I know. I consider all you guys family too. I love hearing your advice. I don't talk much about this stuff to anyone.
My parents, I think, don't even know I have sex. I know I haven't brought it past them personally. And I wouldn't mind if they did know, but I know they'd be pretty pissed off if they knew I wasn't using any kind of protection. So I'm trying to avoid the topic.
I am 23. It's pretty young to have a baby now a days at this age. I know my mom was 22 when she had my sister back in '85.
But I'm graduating college in the spring. I'm hoping to get a job in my field. Plus, I think my boyfriend is going to try and go back to school next fall. So I really shouldn't be risky and thinking all is fine. I've been playing this risky game for FAR TOO LONG.
And I have thought about all the consequences. Asked my boyfriend the other day if ever got pregnant would we keep it or abort it... I hate the thought of abortion. I don't think I could emotional handle doing that. And I know my boyfriend feels the same way I do. |
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:59 pm
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx heart I know. I consider all you guys family too. I love hearing your advice. I don't talk much about this stuff to anyone. My parents, I think, don't even know I have sex. I know I haven't brought it past them personally. And I wouldn't mind if they did know, but I know they'd be pretty pissed off if they knew I wasn't using any kind of protection. So I'm trying to avoid the topic. I am 23. It's pretty young to have a baby now a days at this age. I know my mom was 22 when she had my sister back in '85. But I'm graduating college in the spring. I'm hoping to get a job in my field. Plus, I think my boyfriend is going to try and go back to school next fall. So I really shouldn't be risky and thinking all is fine. I've been playing this risky game for FAR TOO LONG. And I have thought about all the consequences. Asked my boyfriend the other day if ever got pregnant would we keep it or abort it... I hate the thought of abortion. I don't think I could emotional handle doing that. And I know my boyfriend feels the same way I do.
Thats cool, I like sharing advice, I hope to not come off too preachy or too know it all-ish. Yeah I didnt really talk to my parents about any of that stuff either.
Pretty much if you arent ready to settle down, like you are still studying or still finding a career, its not really time for a baby. And yeah abortion or having a baby when you arent ready, either way is a bad situation which will take a pretty big mental toll. |
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 6:11 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 7:04 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 7:08 pm
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx Shannon Kyra Liannanon i hope I'm done with periods, period XD xP It sounds like a nice life. I probably have another 30ish years until mine is gone. I've had mine long enough. I was an early bloomer. I was 10 yrs old. And I got on Christmas eve. It was a Merry Christmas for me. rolleyes
Am I the only virgin in the guild?!
You experienced old farts! |
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 8:04 pm
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx No not at all. smile I like getting your advice. I know. ...I need to tame myself, or start using condoms again (oh that's what I forgot to mention, I feel like the lubricant gets me sick. I know it's not latex. I work at a dentist office and use latex gloves often and I've never had an allergic reaction to them).
Cool cool, if I do ever overstep just let me know.
You know you can get unlubricated right? If as fran from American Dad puts it "Unlubricated, shes good to go just like her mother"...
If that dosent work you can still get unlubed, and then buy your own lube, there are millions of kinds out there, water based, silicon based, other based. What ever it is doing it to you, you can definitly find one without it. Just remember if you are going to test if its not good for you...test it externally first, like on some skin. |
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GoldDiggingWhore Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 8:44 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 04, 2013 2:55 am
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xxXSleepy_NinjaXxx Sagebomb Thats cool, I like sharing advice, I hope to not come off too preachy or too know it all-ish. Yeah I didnt really talk to my parents about any of that stuff either. Pretty much if you arent ready to settle down, like you are still studying or still finding a career, its not really time for a baby. And yeah abortion or having a baby when you arent ready, either way is a bad situation which will take a pretty big mental toll. No not at all. smile I like getting your advice. I know. ...I need to tame myself, or start using condoms again (oh that's what I forgot to mention, I feel like the lubricant gets me sick. I know it's not latex. I work at a dentist office and use latex gloves often and I've never had an allergic reaction to them). |
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Posted: Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:33 am
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