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[Bab! Co.] xu650863441 [Bab! Co.] t0shi0 Really?
Then it must be because Toronto is so Asian populated that no one really cares.
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Haha, same here, its cuz most asians here are all white-washed. sweatdrop when you said "white washed" do you mean they do not have Chinese culture, but white culture? Nope. I meant is that they're Chinese, born in non-asian country, but like they don't act Chinese, they dress like gangsters and all white...no asian in their background, except for their parents. Also, they listen to english music, no Chinese or whatsoever. That's why I want go Hong Kong or Japan. ^_^Y Hmm...very interesting.
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 2:04 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 2:07 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 2:26 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:02 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:15 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:23 pm
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in your case, xu, i think you and your mother could have gotten some legal help for child abuse or something closer to that. i think discriminations happen everywhere, its a part of our defense mechanism, we see something we are not familiar with and we automatically form a biased point of view. its very depressing in a way, and whenever i think bout this i miss home, because frankly, there is no way you will completely fit in, because even if people try to look beyond your colour, they cant completely ignore this fact, everyone judge eachother on their physical feature unconsciously. i think to make our life easier, we should just act together and improve our "sterotype", so even if the others want to pick on us, they cant, cauz there will be nothing to pick on! xd
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:30 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 4:02 pm
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Rosamaine Niphz @xu's OP - That is.. really quite disgusting. The behaviour of such a man. Why the hell did he marry a Chinese woman, in that case? I don't get it. neutral
That is something that puzzles me too. @_@ I was born and raised (and still living!) in Vancouver my whole life. Vancouver, has a very large population, especially after 1997 when many (wealthy) people came from Hong Kong because of the fear of China taking over Hong Kong. A lot of the culture from Hong Kong has been brought over to Vancouver and a lot of the areas surrounding it, especially in Richmond where it's pretty much the Hong Kong of Canada as the majority there are Chinese. While yes there are a few discriminations here and there and stereotypes as well, I don't find it as much as say in the States. Then again, this might be because I'm a second generation Chinese Canadian who can understand Cantonese, but can't speak it unless I'm put into a situation where the other person can only speak Cantonese (like my grandmother for instance). @_@ That actually reminds me now. In school, we did some readings on Chinese Canadian history in English class. We read Diamond Grill by Fred Wah. I think quite a few can relate to it, even though the whole thing was during the 1960s (or was it 70s?) as well as reading Chinese Canadian poems. Ooooo a Gaia MOD!! And living in Vancouver too, gosh, I j'dore Richmond. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 4:09 pm
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the fire within ice in your case, xu, i think you and your mother could have gotten some legal help for child abuse or something closer to that. i think discriminations happen everywhere, its a part of our defense mechanism, we see something we are not familiar with and we automatically form a biased point of view. its very depressing in a way, and whenever i think bout this i miss home, because frankly, there is no way you will completely fit in, because even if people try to look beyond your colour, they cant completely ignore this fact, everyone judge eachother on their physical feature unconsciously. i think to make our life easier, we should just act together and improve our "sterotype", so even if the others want to pick on us, they cant, cauz there will be nothing to pick on! xd We are not familiar with what helps we can get. My mother applied I360 child abuse form so I can get a green card. But that was denied because the application was after my mother's divorce. Now I don't have a SSN, I can't work, my mother has to pay for everything. I wish the world is different. I also miss home, too. I had much more freedom in China than in America. American government emphsizes freedom and I came to America to have less freedom. It's sarcastic, really.
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 4:16 pm
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xoCrow Nowadays, we don't get very much rascism against Chinese or Asians in general since we actually are the majority of the area, close following Americans.
However, in my childhood when there were there weren't as many coming to America, there were many cases of discrimination. Where I used to live, there were only a handful of people that were Chinese. Many Americans made fun of us, saying "ching chong" whenever they passed by us or laughed when we were eating "weird" lunches with chopsticks or the sort. I also had a slight accent when I first came to school here, so people also made fun of me for that.
I'm SO glad I'm where I'm living now, regarding discrimination against race anyways. But now that I live where everyone looks down on you if you are not doing as well as them academically, I can't say I'm living in a perfect place. But no place is perfect. sorry to hear that. The place you live sounds like Beijing where I lived when I was in China. When I was in middle school there, the parents make you study, the school makes you study, the pressure from the society makes you study. Everybody is like a nerd and a geek. In 9th grade the teachers from the 5 major classes(Math, English, Chinese, Physics, Chemistry) each give you 2 tons of homework a day. I remeber I spend hours doing my homework. But when I came to America, the school is so easy. Now I have a 4.0 CPA. in my college.
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 7:00 pm
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xu650863441 xoCrow Nowadays, we don't get very much rascism against Chinese or Asians in general since we actually are the majority of the area, close following Americans.
However, in my childhood when there were there weren't as many coming to America, there were many cases of discrimination. Where I used to live, there were only a handful of people that were Chinese. Many Americans made fun of us, saying "ching chong" whenever they passed by us or laughed when we were eating "weird" lunches with chopsticks or the sort. I also had a slight accent when I first came to school here, so people also made fun of me for that.
I'm SO glad I'm where I'm living now, regarding discrimination against race anyways. But now that I live where everyone looks down on you if you are not doing as well as them academically, I can't say I'm living in a perfect place. But no place is perfect. sorry to hear that. The place you live sounds like Beijing where I lived when I was in China. When I was in middle school there, the parents make you study, the school makes you study, the pressure from the society makes you study. Everybody is like a nerd and a geek. In 9th grade the teachers from the 5 major classes(Math, English, Chinese, Physics, Chemistry) each give you 2 tons of homework a day. I remeber I spend hours doing my homework. But when I came to America, the school is so easy. Now I have a 4.0 CPA. in my college. Wow. Yeah, everyone from Beijing is smart once they come to Canada or US. I envy them sometimes.
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 7:39 pm
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[Bab! Co.] xu650863441 xoCrow Nowadays, we don't get very much rascism against Chinese or Asians in general since we actually are the majority of the area, close following Americans.
However, in my childhood when there were there weren't as many coming to America, there were many cases of discrimination. Where I used to live, there were only a handful of people that were Chinese. Many Americans made fun of us, saying "ching chong" whenever they passed by us or laughed when we were eating "weird" lunches with chopsticks or the sort. I also had a slight accent when I first came to school here, so people also made fun of me for that.
I'm SO glad I'm where I'm living now, regarding discrimination against race anyways. But now that I live where everyone looks down on you if you are not doing as well as them academically, I can't say I'm living in a perfect place. But no place is perfect. sorry to hear that. The place you live sounds like Beijing where I lived when I was in China. When I was in middle school there, the parents make you study, the school makes you study, the pressure from the society makes you study. Everybody is like a nerd and a geek. In 9th grade the teachers from the 5 major classes(Math, English, Chinese, Physics, Chemistry) each give you 2 tons of homework a day. I remeber I spend hours doing my homework. But when I came to America, the school is so easy. Now I have a 4.0 CPA. in my college. Wow. Yeah, everyone from Beijing is smart once they come to Canada or US. I envy them sometimes. lol send your children to Beijing for elementary-high school, then let them come to Canada or US and you will be proud of them smile
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