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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 2:48 pm
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Teh Pure x__P o e t Pelvic Thrust Fairy  Pelvic Thrust me. . [harder]. .. and . . Moan for me. ..
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This thread is MAD interesting. xD
Thrusts: 13,273 Yes. Yes, it is.
But I can`t ask any of my questions.
They`re all like rated `R`. . . >.>
Mine are all like...rated X.
xD
I think all my questions have been asked.... |
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:38 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:42 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:43 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:04 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:06 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:14 am
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Shadowcutter Ok girls. What would your reaction be if one of your sorta good friends asks you out, but you don't want to be more than friends? What would you say to him? Also, is it a bad idea for friends to become more than friends?
I'll answer that in reverse and of course based on my opinion and experience... I think it's important to be friends first. It's important to know the person you are with. And I really think it deepens your love in the long haul if he understands you and vice versa, and there's a mutual respect.
Oh...but that is a hard question (in two parts really, the reaction and the answer) Reaction is hard. If he's really a close friend, #1 he won't overreact. And if he does, he needs space. And #2 It might be awkward but as I said if you are really true friends, you will learn from the moment and move past it.
What would I say... hopefully nothing cliche or corny. LOL like 'our friendship means too much...' no. I'd want to be really frank with him. But of course put it out there that I am flattered but 'I'm just not that into him'. Why waste anyone's time? But, I wouldn't tell him this... (not sure I should reveal this) who knows... in the future things may change. ^_^ So being friends still could be just what was meant to be. But my advice to the guy, don't hold onto that. Be her friend, date other girls, business as usual.
LOL hope that clarifies. Honestly I've been through this MANY times with male friends and ... my honey and I have known each other a long time and we were very honest friends long before we dated. I knew all about him. ^_^
EDIT: gah! I'm tired... I didn't tell my reaction. wink I honestly don't know. It can be a variety of reactions depending on how intense his proposal (for more than friendship) is, ya know? Like, does he invite you to do something romantic? well that'd be a big warning sign of something. Or how does he present it? I'd want to be honest but also mindful of his feelings. I be sure to present it very clearly.
And I am sorta confused by the 'sorta good friends'... maybe you're not frank enough or close enough for her to be that honest or maybe she'll be MORE honest. I don't know. If he is afraid of say chasing her off... souring the friendship... don't be. Because if she's a true friend, she'll be able to help you move pass the awkward moment. |
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 3:43 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 5:27 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 5:36 am
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Shadowcutter Ok girls. What would your reaction be if one of your sorta good friends asks you out, but you don't want to be more than friends? What would you say to him? Also, is it a bad idea for friends to become more than friends?
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My reaction would be ' the ********? ' I would say " No. " first of all. I'm one of those girls who is straight forward, with boys anyways. Then, I'd go explaining why, " I don't see us going on like this. "
Well you normally have to start out as friends to become more then friends. =/ Anyways, I say YES IS IT A HORRIBLE IDEA for good friends to start going out. Ohh boy, I had a group of five buddy's and man, we all started dating and liking each other and MAN we are not good friends no more. Though, I was the smart one, and NOT in the love triangle/circle thing.
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:04 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:35 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:44 am
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Shadowcutter Ok girls. What would your reaction be if one of your sorta good friends asks you out, but you don't want to be more than friends? What would you say to him? Also, is it a bad idea for friends to become more than friends?
In my opinion, it's better for any relationship if you're friends first, that way you know each other pretty well and it won't be as awkward and hard as learning things as you go along. My boyfriend and I were best friends for a whole year before he asked me out. It's been another year since then, and we're still going out. It didn't ruin our relationship or anything like other people are saying for some reason. I do think, though, that if you take things too quickly with a good friend that they can kinda be like "Okay, WTF?" and kinda back away from you. xD
If one of my good guy friends asked me out and I didn't want to be more than friends...Well, right now my guy friends know better than to ask me out because they know my boyfriend will kick their asses. xD There is this one guy that always hits on me, though, or I'll be talking to him and he'll be looking at my bewbs, and I'll just kick him in the shins (I kick really ******** hard, especially when I'm pissed off) and tell him that if he does anything like that again my boyfriend AND my cousin are going to hear about it. (My cousin is one of those huge meat heads that everyone in the school knows; on the varsity football team, wrestling team. So yeah. People don't mess with me.)
If I weren't dating and a good guy friend that I didn't "like" asked me out...I don't really know. I guess I'd just tell him that I don't like him as more than a friend and I wouldn't feel comfortable dating him. I've only had one person ask me out ever, and that's my boyfriend. I'd make sure to tell him that I was really flattered, though, because all my good friends, male or female, will know that I'm not the most popular girl at school. In fact, the only reason people at my school know me is because I'm "Big D's cousin" rolleyes I HATE his nickname. (His full name is Donald Valentine, so I make a point of calling him that in front of his friends, instead of Donny xD) |
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