I understand. Things like this are important to me too. I'm actually somewhat at odds. I think this world runs on free will, but in the case of a ***** there is a level of confusion for me. Even if someone hasn't molested a child, if they have a ***** nature I wonder if it's a case of being psychologically or spiritually messed up. But then you start questioning what is "normal" and what is right and wrong. I do think there is right and wrong. I don't believe in this "nothing's right or wrong" mentality a lot of people prescribe to.
edit: I've seen plenty of anime characters that I've thought were hot. Most anime characters are underaged. I'm pretty sure that still doesn't make me ***** lol