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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 6:11 pm
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Luna StormHaven Kayian Err...like I said, no ones perfect....although I cant say much with only something that I forget what it was called, I think it was damp or w/e I think...I just lost the game...Like YOU said no one is perfect! I have a few major flaws People hate me Hell I git a better attitude today I wore a collar today!
Right on!! |
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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 6:13 pm
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Kayian Luna StormHaven Kayian Err...like I said, no ones perfect....although I cant say much with only something that I forget what it was called, I think it was damp or w/e I think...I just lost the game...Like YOU said no one is perfect! I have a few major flaws People hate me Hell I git a better attitude today I wore a collar today! Right on!!
So boyah!
Stupid jocks wait I was a jock ._. |
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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 6:34 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 7:09 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 7:33 pm
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"The school freak" is a particular term. Where you well accepted and a social butterfly prior to the inncident? And no offense sweetie, I'm just speaking as an outsider here, I suppose.
People have, and always will, had a habbit of seperating people into groups. We do it by gender, by religion, by sexual preference, and in ancient times by species as ******** neanderthalls, amirite?). There is always going to be differentiation
As the old internet addage goes "Do not feed the trolls". Don't be mute, but don't give into them insulting you either. Generally returned insults work well. Some people are just mindless bullies, and remember its this tiny percentage of people that are going to be your real harrassers.
Your life is yours and your own to live. Don't allow other people to take it from you. Its a fight. It doesn't have to be a violent fight, but you can't just roll over and stick your bumbum in the air. A mute target is often more satisfiying then a crying target.
In the end, does what any of the people making fun of you's opinion change your own opinion of yourself? Yeah, lame words when your experiencing it, but looking back on my own time in highschool and the s**t and degredation I had to go through(Try being a lesbian in a 100% mormon community), it really does only ammount to a great bif heap of pain and gut clenching that you can avoid, by simply choosing to not cling to it.
Mmm....sorry, my words seem very inelegant. I've been quite ill. Just don't be silenced.
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 5:41 am
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Pixeliciousness "The school freak" is a particular term. Where you well accepted and a social butterfly prior to the inncident? And no offense sweetie, I'm just speaking as an outsider here, I suppose. People have, and always will, had a habbit of seperating people into groups. We do it by gender, by religion, by sexual preference, and in ancient times by species as ******** neanderthalls, amirite?). There is always going to be differentiation As the old internet addage goes "Do not feed the trolls". Don't be mute, but don't give into them insulting you either. Generally returned insults work well. Some people are just mindless bullies, and remember its this tiny percentage of people that are going to be your real harrassers. Your life is yours and your own to live. Don't allow other people to take it from you. Its a fight. It doesn't have to be a violent fight, but you can't just roll over and stick your bumbum in the air. A mute target is often more satisfiying then a crying target. In the end, does what any of the people making fun of you's opinion change your own opinion of yourself? Yeah, lame words when your experiencing it, but looking back on my own time in highschool and the s**t and degredation I had to go through(Try being a lesbian in a 100% mormon community), it really does only ammount to a great bif heap of pain and gut clenching that you can avoid, by simply choosing to not cling to it. Mmm....sorry, my words seem very inelegant. I've been quite ill. Just don't be silenced.
It's okay, I got to become the outsider after September of last year I had to quite football cause of my knee injury everyone hated me since then |
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 6:52 am
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:31 am
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Aakosir Luna StormHaven Aakosir I was in color guard, with the marching band, for all my high school years. I got over my stage fright very quickly. I realized that I loved doing what I did, plus not many people were looking at me. Don't let fear hinder what you love. If you do that then you will surely get nowhere in life. Life is about overcomming obstacles. It's not easy. And if anyone ever says life is easy then they are in for a major wake up call. My high school just renavated the autoteium so its now huge!!
Why do you like drumline? Just remember the reason you like it, I'm sure it will help.
Yes ma'am I will |
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:12 pm
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Luna StormHaven Aakosir Luna StormHaven Aakosir I was in color guard, with the marching band, for all my high school years. I got over my stage fright very quickly. I realized that I loved doing what I did, plus not many people were looking at me. Don't let fear hinder what you love. If you do that then you will surely get nowhere in life. Life is about overcomming obstacles. It's not easy. And if anyone ever says life is easy then they are in for a major wake up call. My high school just renavated the autoteium so its now huge!!
Why do you like drumline? Just remember the reason you like it, I'm sure it will help.Yes ma'am I will
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:17 pm
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2011 2:28 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 20, 2011 9:45 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 20, 2011 11:49 pm
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dont let these assholes get to you. period.
im a closet fur, so i never got bullied for that. but my friend was real open about it and she got picked on alot for that, and so did i for hanging out with her. not to mention the fact that i was "fat" (what the hell are they smoking?! they're fatter than i am). she moved away and the teasing stopped, but hell if i'l ever forget that
there's three ways to go with this-
1) ignore them+ get help.
this works out great for awhile. dont feed the troll. and get help is pretty self explanitory
2) find others just like you
this is good too. like i said, me and my friend were both furs so we stuck up for eachother and supported eachother. the support helps, alot. why? because its coming from somebody who is going through what you are going through. and they know exactly how to comfort you.
3) joke about it.
this, many dont do. but its effective. i know, because i've tried it. turn every insult into a joke. after awhile the bullies will stop bothering you because nothing seems to faze you, only make you laugh. for example, this actually happened once:
"hey, stupid furry b***h!"
"aww, thank you. i made sure to wear my stupid-furry-b***h pants today, arent they neat?"
yeah, thats not the best i can come up with, but i cant rememebr anything right now since its really late.
hope it helps hun! |
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2011 5:58 am
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Red7227 dont let these assholes get to you. period.
im a closet fur, so i never got bullied for that. but my friend was real open about it and she got picked on alot for that, and so did i for hanging out with her. not to mention the fact that i was "fat" (what the hell are they smoking?! they're fatter than i am). she moved away and the teasing stopped, but hell if i'l ever forget that
there's three ways to go with this-
1) ignore them+ get help.
this works out great for awhile. dont feed the troll. and get help is pretty self explanitory
2) find others just like you
this is good too. like i said, me and my friend were both furs so we stuck up for eachother and supported eachother. the support helps, alot. why? because its coming from somebody who is going through what you are going through. and they know exactly how to comfort you.
3) joke about it.
this, many dont do. but its effective. i know, because i've tried it. turn every insult into a joke. after awhile the bullies will stop bothering you because nothing seems to faze you, only make you laugh. for example, this actually happened once:
"hey, stupid furry b***h!"
"aww, thank you. i made sure to wear my stupid-furry-b***h pants today, arent they neat?"
yeah, thats not the best i can come up with, but i cant rememebr anything right now since its really late.
hope it helps hun!
There are other furrys in my school
One male licked my cheek >w< |
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