Arrange marriages

[yalie5]

who'd want to be in arrange marriage. you'd get completely tied down by someone you'd prolly come to loathe. eek  

[Darkaznstargoddess]

Cat-Whiskers

Legal age to get married in China is 21.

Lunar or angelic years? confused

azn_cutie_pie

i dont think arrange marragies r really good caz u might not love the other person!!!

You can learn to love someone. A relationship is built on trust, after getting to know them for awhile its possible to fall in love.  

[yalie5]

Darkaznstargoddess

Cat-Whiskers

Legal age to get married in China is 21.

Lunar or angelic years? confused

azn_cutie_pie

i dont think arrange marragies r really good caz u might not love the other person!!!

You can learn to love someone. A relationship is built on trust, after getting to know them for awhile its possible to fall in love.

or you can come to resent them  

[Darkaznstargoddess]

yalie5

Darkaznstargoddess

Cat-Whiskers

Legal age to get married in China is 21.

Lunar or angelic years? confused

azn_cutie_pie

i dont think arrange marragies r really good caz u might not love the other person!!!

You can learn to love someone. A relationship is built on trust, after getting to know them for awhile its possible to fall in love.

or you can come to resent them

Lmao true, and plead for a divorce or have a affair while you're at it. xd  

[yalie5]

Darkaznstargoddess

yalie5

Darkaznstargoddess

Cat-Whiskers

Legal age to get married in China is 21.

Lunar or angelic years? confused

azn_cutie_pie

i dont think arrange marragies r really good caz u might not love the other person!!!

You can learn to love someone. A relationship is built on trust, after getting to know them for awhile its possible to fall in love.

or you can come to resent them

Lmao true, and plead for a divorce or have a affair while you're at it. xd

but divorce would bring shame (so to speak) and admit failure on your parents part. and affair could be used as amo against you eek  

[Teh Vampy]

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;  

[yalie5]

Teh Vampy

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;

i think it's still like that.  

[Teh Vampy]

yalie5

Teh Vampy

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;

i think it's still like that.

Yeah. xd  

[yalie5]

Teh Vampy

yalie5

Teh Vampy

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;

i think it's still like that.

Yeah. xd

that really sucks... i'd like to not get married at all. then i can be free to do whatever i want.  

[Darkaznstargoddess]

yalie5

Darkaznstargoddess

yalie5

Darkaznstargoddess

Cat-Whiskers

Legal age to get married in China is 21.

Lunar or angelic years? confused

azn_cutie_pie

i dont think arrange marragies r really good caz u might not love the other person!!!

You can learn to love someone. A relationship is built on trust, after getting to know them for awhile its possible to fall in love.

or you can come to resent them

Lmao true, and plead for a divorce or have a affair while you're at it. xd

but divorce would bring shame (so to speak) and admit failure on your parents part. and affair could be used as amo against you eek

True but recall some people have no shame at all.You could always advoid them for a few years until/if they ever forgive you.  

[Teh Vampy]

yalie5

Teh Vampy

yalie5

Teh Vampy

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;

i think it's still like that.

Yeah. xd

that really sucks... i'd like to not get married at all. then i can be free to do whatever i want.

I'd like to marry a guy I love and trust. o-o; (Okay, not drug addict or alcholic. x-x)
And promise not to abuse me, of course.
Money is no problem...because..we can both work.

 

[yalie5]

Teh Vampy

yalie5

Teh Vampy

yalie5

Teh Vampy

For me, I don't like arranged marriges, because in the past, arranged marriges often goes to the topic of money. D:

And, the other person might treat you bad. O-o;;

i think it's still like that.

Yeah. xd

that really sucks... i'd like to not get married at all. then i can be free to do whatever i want.

I'd like to marry a guy I love and trust. o-o; (Okay, not drug addict or alcholic. x-x)
And promise not to abuse me, of course.
Money is no problem...because..we can both work.

lol you'd have to be mental to trust a drug addict or a alcoholic. and you know just cause they promise doesn't mean they won't do it. guys promise you alot of things when they're trying to get you. and yeah. a working girl. that's good. i hate the kind of girls who thinks that just cause they're married they can act spoiled and get whatever they want. (mainly cause they married a rich guy)
@dasg: yeah you could. or you can have no shame at all and tell them f*ck off.  

[~leng.mui~]

my father's grandparents thought for arranged marriages..so my father was arranged with my mother...

my father is really old fashioned and talks about things like this, but then, we're not in Hina or HK or taiwan..so he doesn't express this much..another goo dthing is that he is in CHina..my mother, my brother and i are in Canada  

[yalie5]

hmm... does it count as an arranged marriage cause you had to marry your spouse cause you got knocked up by them?  

[Darkaznstargoddess]

yalie5

hmm... does it count as an arranged marriage cause you had to marry your spouse cause you got knocked up by them?

Nope.
People have the option to get married and raise the child together or unmarried.
They could abort or put the child up for adoption or just ditch the other spouse.