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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:15 pm
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Okay, skip if you don't want to read emo s**t, I have a feeling this post is going to be long... I've just had a really bad weekend, seems like my shitty summer is turning into a ******** shitty whole year and life.
Edit: Also this post is full of gramatical errors and typos etc, but at 4am I really don't have the energy to go through the whole post and correct it all. I simply don't care about it.
I found out today that I actually hit my friends boyfriend yesterday... slapped him, I mean how extreme isn't that? I don't remember this myself, since those two absinthe shots and various other 10+ drinks pretty much created those blank slots in my memory I often have and often even love, believe it or not. I know I defend my friends furiously, but isn't this just a bit too much. Not only did I slap him, but I said lots of nasty things too. All I remember is that he said something that just made me furious, he's good at that since he's a total a*****e when drunk.
Other than that I today tried to get drunk again and forget yesterday's s**t, but failed. Yes failed at getting drunk, believe it or not. After 3 shots and a bottle of whine + various other drinks I just gave up, they didn't affect me in any way even though I tried very hard. Pretty much proves how much I've been drinking lately and how shitty I've been feeling, since the more I'm bored and the more I'm feeling down, the more I drink.
Something you realize when you spend an evening sober with your drunk friends is how boring they are. Horrible isn't it? The reason they are boring is probably because they've grown up while I've been stuck on this immature level for far too long. They really are no fun at all, they just whine too much, there is seriously zero creativity and no ******** way they'd actually ever try something new... because you know, that would just be too shocking. It gets frustrating when I've been stuck in this bloody small town all my life and all my best friends are slowly moving away. Those that aren't moving away have a boyfriend that they live together with and pretty much play husband and wife with, no play no fun all work. Wtf am I going to do?
Being sober in a bar also has other disadavantages, you actually see clearly how disgusting it all is. I've known it before, but ignored it by pouring down some more drinks, but sober it's hard not to pay attention to it. Drunk guys are unatractive even when you're drunk, when you're sober they're just horrifying and scary. You also feel really lonely, even though you've surrounded yourself with loads of friends, it just feels like you're a complete outsider no matter what. Something I also noticed is that I've grown tired of hitting on guys, it's just not fun anymore, it's all so meaningless. The few guys I actually agree to date after a one night stand often turn out really boring... and even if they aren't boring, I just freak out when they try to get to know me and get closer. I hardly ever let mmy guard down with my friends, in fact I doubt a single one of my friends truelly knows me, so how can I let my guard down to some stranger?
My worst fear is being left alone, which is why I surround myself with loads and loads of friends... but in the end I always feel lonely anyways. I try to ignore it as much as I can, but I still wake up feeling lonely and go home feeling lonely. Self-pity is disgusting and I always beat myself up for feeling sorry for myself since I think it's ugly, but being the self destructive me as I am I can always find something to dwell about. It's really interesting how someone can deliberately do so much damage to oneself on purpose. It's almost as I'm looking for a reason to slice my own wrists (I don't do that kind of stuff though, so don't worry). The worse I feel, the more I pour crap over myself, such an evil circle.
Hmm... yes, always feels good to get stuff out of the system, writing it down is a good way to toss s**t away and forget about it. Forgetting stuff and just pushing them under the carpet is unfortunately my way to deal with things, don't know another way to deal with crap. Well, don't really know why I'm writing it here, since I don't want pity or advise or any comments whatsoever, but I think that the egocentric me wouldn't be able to accept me writing things down only on my own computer... it wouldn't be enough, so I have to torment you. Besides, if I write it down here I don't have to see it anymore after one or two days. Also the people here only know the online me and would probably not even recognize the real me, so it doesn't matter anyways.
Whew, some bad stuff out of thr system, now to deal with the rest... I leave it for another day. Back to the wonderful happy life of Teresa, where I'm a smiling face and a happy crazy partyer.
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:39 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:41 pm
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Your name is Teresa? Coolio, that's a nice name. 3nodding Sorry you're having a hard time.. I know you didn't really expect/want any comments, but yea, I'm totally commenting, lol. I know that technically I don't know you all to well, even the online you. sweatdrop In fact, the sum of what I do know consists of three things. 1.) you collect OoC art. (I believe this is true..) 2.) your name is Teresa. (This is new, xd ) 3.) Tana loves you. (no idea whether or not this is true, but I like to poke fun at Tana, lol.) Anywhos.. since you don't want advice... Let me just say that it'll all work out in the end, and until then, party like a rock star. (But don't OD on drugs. tehe) *huggles* Hope your summer gets better Mou-chan!
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:47 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:57 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:15 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:18 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:19 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:20 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:21 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:23 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:25 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:28 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 7:29 pm
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