Self-Injury: Advice

[Kobalt93]

Hi, I am totaly with you Archangel Izual!

I hope that all of you who cut themselves, find a way to stop. I really hope that you'll be able. Cutting is a easy way to not think about your sadness but it's not the good one, doing things you love and doing things with the people you love are good ways to go threw the problem. For those who hurt themselves mentally, I just want to tell you that the bad things people say to you are not true! You're as good as them.

I hope that I helped you. smile  

[Mortal Apparition]

I think that any form of distraction(Which should also be interesting) is the best method.  

[King of Methlehem]

A Thousand Painful Memory

when i make a cut i show it to all my friends, i'm a proud emo and i don't care whut ppl think

Oh my god what a ******** poser. People like you are the reason I stopped cutting. Your the type who cuts for emo points, running a safely pins down your arm repeatedly praying it will make a mark to show off. Try and deny it all you want. For years I walked around in long sleved shirts a hoodies hiding My body because it was scared and burns. When you've been overwight for 15 years of your life, when you've had your head slamed in to a sink everyday for two years, When your mom has forgot your birth day more the twice, your dad blow the house up his nose quits his well paying job to work at ******** wal-mart then you can cut, burn, inpale your self all you want but untill then stop hogging up all the air you stupied b***h.

 

[Silver Wingling]

I used to cut, and I hid it. Then, one day at school, one of my friends, who is a little to smart, took a guess, and pulled up my sleeve at lunch. My arm, was, of course, covered in cuts and scars. My friend told me he cuts too, and wouldn't tell, but a prep saw and told on me. My mom put me in therepy, and I don't cut as much now. But, from time to time, the X-acto still sees a little blood.  

[The Dadalorian]

`Blissful Ignorance

A Thousand Painful Memory

when i make a cut i show it to all my friends, i'm a proud emo and i don't care whut ppl think

Oh my god what a ******** poser. People like you are the reason I stopped cutting. Your the type who cuts for emo points, running a safely pins down your arm repeatedly praying it will make a mark to show off. Try and deny it all you want. For years I walked around in long sleved shirts a hoodies hiding My body because it was scared and burns. When you've been overwight for 15 years of your life, when you've had your head slamed in to a sink everyday for two years, When your mom has forgot your birth day more the twice, your dad blow the house up his nose quits his well paying job to work at ******** wal-mart then you can cut, burn, inpale your self all you want but untill then stop hogging up all the air you stupied b***h.

i tihn kthat is your third warning...but il llet ashes or rellik decide  

[[Ashes][is][Ashes]]

He's already had three warnings in three different threads in this subforum, and was banned. All for the same thing.  

[The Dadalorian]

[Ashes][is][Ashes]

He's already had three warnings in three different threads in this subforum, and was banned. All for the same thing.

i've only seen 2 of his warnings  

[XXX Zombie Porn]

`Blissful Ignorance

A Thousand Painful Memory

when i make a cut i show it to all my friends, i'm a proud emo and i don't care whut ppl think

Oh my god what a ******** poser. People like you are the reason I stopped cutting. Your the type who cuts for emo points, running a safely pins down your arm repeatedly praying it will make a mark to show off. Try and deny it all you want. For years I walked around in long sleved shirts a hoodies hiding My body because it was scared and burns. When you've been overwight for 15 years of your life, when you've had your head slamed in to a sink everyday for two years, When your mom has forgot your birth day more the twice, your dad blow the house up his nose quits his well paying job to work at ******** wal-mart then you can cut, burn, inpale your self all you want but untill then stop hogging up all the air you stupied b***h.

Isn't that good people like that are around if it stops you?  

[Eri Luvs You]

I dislike how all these kids are cutting themselves for dumba** reasons, showing it off and telling people. You're trying to get attention and if you actually had a problem then you would have gone to a hospital for mental help.
Cutting and self mutilation is not childs play. It's not supposed to be over your parents not giving you the attention you want or your boyfriend breaking up with you. This whole "I'm emo i cut myself" bulls*** upsets me.
I wish this would go away but i know it wont.  

[Eri Luvs You]

And not to seem upset for the misunderstanding purposes...

I'm upset because I am a person a lives with Borderline Personality Disorder and I used to cut for 5 almost 6 years. I was in therapy and on medications for a long time. At one point I started doing mass amounts of drugs and one evening i ended up cutting myself and burning myself with a heated (lighter) knife. My parents found out about my drug abuse and my self mutilation and i was put into a mental facility for 3 months. It's been years since that happened. I never did it for attention, I did it because I was sick. I realize that after years of therapy. I still live with my disorder and I will for the rest of my life but i get by. I'm 19 and I know I live a privilaged life. I appreciate my parents. I just live with a constant sickness I've somewhat learned to deal with.  

[The Dadalorian]

eri x core

And not to seem upset for the misunderstanding purposes...

I'm upset because I am a person a lives with Borderline Personality Disorder and I used to cut for 5 almost 6 years. I was in therapy and on medications for a long time. At one point I started doing mass amounts of drugs and one evening i ended up cutting myself and burning myself with a heated (lighter) knife. My parents found out about my drug abuse and my self mutilation and i was put into a mental facility for 3 months. It's been years since that happened. I never did it for attention, I did it because I was sick. I realize that after years of therapy. I still live with my disorder and I will for the rest of my life but i get by. I'm 19 and I know I live a privilaged life. I appreciate my parents. I just live with a constant sickness I've somewhat learned to deal with.

amen  

[sensually-active]

All my life, startting at the age of 10, I have always cut, and tryed to go suicide. Nobody knew about it, and thats what I wanted, nobody to know my life problem. Once I told my friend about my problems, and he accidentally told two of my other friends about it, and they told everyone at school and I was known as a suicidal freak. And they surprisingly told my parents about it, and they totally freaked out. They were going to send me to a therapists, until I told them that my friends were lieng and that its just a big rumer going on at school about me. They beleived me. And im still the laughing stock at school. It sucks, cause im the only emo there. Everyone eles is either a prep or a wana be gangster..or a nerd. But, I recently almost shot myself in the head, tryed to sufercate myself, and tryed to drown myself. But every time, someone gets in the way. And my parents arent helping one bit. they dont love eachother, they tell me that im the reson that were broke, My dad is drunk all the time and him and my mom get into huge four hour fights, and its usualy all my fault. And every time that happens, the cuts get deeper. Ive decided to give up on love, cause its already given up on me. My 13 years of living have gone no where. And it never will  

[Alxied]

eri x core

I dislike how all these kids are cutting themselves for dumba** reasons, showing it off and telling people. You're trying to get attention and if you actually had a problem then you would have gone to a hospital for mental help.
Cutting and self mutilation is not childs play. It's not supposed to be over your parents not giving you the attention you want or your boyfriend breaking up with you. This whole "I'm emo i cut myself" bulls*** upsets me.
I wish this would go away but i know it wont.

Yes, I dislike it as well, but you've gotta remember that some people just don't have the strength to get and help, whether they want it or not. I certainly do not like going to the doctors, even if I get a major concussion.
And as for the child play of it and the reason they do it, it shouldn't concern you. Different things upset different people.  

[The Dadalorian]

Alxied

eri x core

I dislike how all these kids are cutting themselves for dumba** reasons, showing it off and telling people. You're trying to get attention and if you actually had a problem then you would have gone to a hospital for mental help.
Cutting and self mutilation is not childs play. It's not supposed to be over your parents not giving you the attention you want or your boyfriend breaking up with you. This whole "I'm emo i cut myself" bulls*** upsets me.
I wish this would go away but i know it wont.

Yes, I dislike it as well, but you've gotta remember that some people just don't have the strength to get and help, whether they want it or not. I certainly do not like going to the doctors, even if I get a major concussion.
And as for the child play of it and the reason they do it, it shouldn't concern you. Different things upset different people.

they have the strength everyone does
they're just too into themselves to get help.