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 Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:22 am
I'm sure thats just what you tell yourself.
I have no idea why you would rather plan and strive to have children than go to college.
That way you could have provided a better life for your children.
Here in the states if you strive to have children over education and a real life with a real career (as in not working as a waitress or at the gap all your life) we call that white trash.
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:00 am
well, over here it's different. It's alot easier to afford a house and stuff on one person's wages. (if they have a good job, which my boyfriend does)
I am not white trash. My children are well provided for.
And by the way, I just finished a medical course...so that means I do something proper...so yeah, blah
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Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2008 4:34 pm
still a stupid idea, anyways she's 19 now and not a teen so whatever
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Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2008 6:53 pm
PinkSpider I am 19 and I have two little boys. Locklyn (2)  And Justin (3 months)  They were both planned and I am doing great with my life. I live in my own house, my boyfriend works and we are all just fine. We CAN manage. My life was NOT wasted They're so cute <3 Eri: Some people would rather have children and stay at home than work, it doesn't make them trash.
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:03 am
Agreed but it depends on the situation.
Age has alot to do with it and if they went to school to get a real job or not.
If someone is that young, not married and has kids how are they going to live properly if they break up?
Kids before getting married is just...a bad idea.
The goal is to find someone you love, seal the deal to where you're bound together and then have children.
He can just leave her any day he wants and get away with not paying child support (that happens alot) because they arent married.
That just makes life that much more difficult.
If youre going to say "he loves me and he would never do that", you should talk about getting married to make sure everything works out well.
Kids and not having been married is not a good idea for children or the girl.
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:29 am
Same thing happened to my mom.
You should have waited, but no turning back the time.
You could ask a family member to help out like once a week or something so you can finish up school.
When they get to like 8 or 10 you should be able to go to collage and then get a good job. Just make sure you have a guy to help you and the kids, one that wont just up a leave.
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 5:32 pm
i'd hate the fact that they can be called bastards, and they can't do anything about it cause it's true
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:08 pm
Soviet Mudkipz i'd hate the fact that they can be called bastards, and they can't do anything about it cause it's true good point.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:48 am
I wish you would stop jumping to conclusions hey.
I DID finish school.
We ARE talking about marriage.
So yeah...
And I know they can be called bastards...but yeah, nothing I can do now. As long as we're all happy, which we are wink
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:50 am
Moonlight Agony Same thing happened to my mom. You should have waited, but no turning back the time. You could ask a family member to help out like once a week or something so you can finish up school. When they get to like 8 or 10 you should be able to go to collage and then get a good job. Just make sure you have a guy to help you and the kids, one that wont just up a leave. Yeah I was planning on doing that hey ^_^ As soon as they're both in school I want to go back to work. It's not like I've just given up on career all together. I just rather kids first. I do have a good guy. A great guy actually. I know he's not going anywhere ^_^
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 4:13 am
Yeah, my parents did that to me too, you know, had me too early
I'm no longer in their care by way of legal action.
Good luck
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 5:26 am
Well that's you and your parents. It's not my fault. Maybe they should have looked after you better than. You don't even know me, so back off yeah?
I'm just trying to join in with the conversation topic, not trying to argue and cause s**t. I don't know why you're all attacking. You just can't accept that someone can actually be happy.
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 12:13 am
just from my personal exp
i belevie that if the love is there in with the parrents
then i believe it is ok but if there is no love then no
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 2:09 pm
Theemohoe just from my personal exp i belevie that if the love is there in with the parrents then i believe it is ok but if there is no love then no not that simple buckaroo
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 2:20 pm
Most of teh girls in my school have kids or are about to have them, as well as a lot of them happen to be my close friends. I have yet to meet one that regrets having their child, maybe that's just me?
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