Morgandria
Dianda Panda
I have no idea if I have one, or two. Or more.
The only animals I dream about is the dog of my parents and my two cats.
I feel close to a few animals. But that might be because they are just my favorite animals?
I don't know how to figure out what your totem is either.
The only animals I dream about is the dog of my parents and my two cats.
I feel close to a few animals. But that might be because they are just my favorite animals?
I don't know how to figure out what your totem is either.
Totems are typically based on family or clans, where they occur. One doesn't get to choose a 'totem'; you pretty much get what you get. Totems are the archetypal spirits of a particular living thing: they are the sum of all that is for those creatures. You can sometimes make acquaintance with totems and work with them, if they desire, but others will want nothing to do with you, and be very clear about that.
Spirit guides (or helpers, or allies) are typically individual spirits of one kind or another. They might be a once-living animal, a person, a particular tree you know, an extinct species - there's lots of possibilities here. I don't think everyone 'has' a spirit guide, really, any more than I think everyone has a patron deity, but it's possible to meet helpful spirits as you go, and make friends and allies.
It's a lot easier to meet a spirit guide than it is a totem. Spirit guides can usually be sought through simple Middle-world journeying, or through guided meditation, in a way that allows them to appear to you of their own free will. Totems may or may not answer any sort of appeal you put to them for their attention - they're much larger in scope than a single spirit, and frankly sort of view us as 'small'.
Hmmh, I know about that guided meditation to meet spirits.
I thought totems were somewhat the same. /facepalm.