Women Issues

[Bodhisattva Empress]

iHuntur

This is going to be really awkward.. But my friend is trying to spice things up with my girlfriend with more than the occasional sex or whatever...

What are things that are the most pleasing to girls?

Feel free not to answer.

Are you trying to find a way for your friend to spice things up with your gf? Because that doesnt sound right and maybe you should rephrase that sentence xd  

[iHuntur]

WOAH!!! Haha I ment his!  

[Noa Hayato]

Anything involving chocolate is nice to girls....
But really, I think you can find a lot of stuff online about that subject.  

[irishshamrock12]

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[Noa Hayato]

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[Aro97]

Girls are complicated to be nice and then get labled as a softy or a punk makes it worse.There is a time when their as nice as can be then the next momment BAM!!! you get stuff like "WTF are you doing talking to me GTFO!!" stare can someone explain this to me.  

[Silence-S Scream]

Idk my gf does the same thing....
i read a child psychology book last week, so i might be going out on a limb here but....
Maybe they don't realize that many guys would like to just sit and be cuddly, intstead of thinking it's "Gay".
Or it could be that they uncomfortable or bored, and half to be mean to stop from getting bored.
I have many theories, each as unlikely as the rest. I don't really know.

BUT NOW MY OWN PROBLEMS!!
my girlfriend doesn't seem to pay much attention to me, at least when I'm with her and her friends. Even if it's just me, her, and her friend, she still refuses to stay by me for a long period of time, walking over to her friend every 5 minutes she's been next to me.  

[theholyest]

Male friends or Female friends?
If female:
Maybe she doesn't want to make it too awkward for her friends?

If Male friends:
Well....I dont know.  

[Sorgaren]

Well, one thing I can tell you--from personal experience--is that she would feel really bad if you were glued to each other in front of her friends. I know that, when you're in a relationship, it tends to feel like it should be more the boy and the girl, but I think that, for the most part, you should just let her be on that one. Her friends are important to her, and I can guarantee you're only going to get negative results by challenging her on it.  

[Silence-S Scream]

TNX PERSONS
yeah her friends a girl
I dont really hang out wit my guy friends, so that's not really a problem for me.

ALSO
she sometimes acts like a whore
She isn't really, but she pretends she is... it's weird...
I dont really like it
But we're never alone so i can't talk to her about serious things
She's only kissed me twice in the 3-4 months we've been going out  

[little mintchan]

She must be a prep .-.

if you guys are never alone than straight out tell her that she is acting like a whore and you feel that it is embarrassing to you as her boyfriend.

if she dosen't listen then just break up with her and find a more relaxed and probaly less girly.  

[Silence-S Scream]

well.... IDK how to explain it....
she acts liek a whore with her girl friends... like... lezbo....
but.... the things she randomly says... bother me.  

[Sky0814]

The earth is round and has weather patterns than clenase it.

That is a women. Women are round in many ways.The weather man is never right becuase women are unpredictable. They menstrulate to cleanse themselves.  

[Sorgaren]

DeadlyDarkWarrior

well.... IDK how to explain it....
she acts liek a whore with her girl friends... like... lezbo....
but.... the things she randomly says... bother me.

Sky, I don't believe that has anything to do with the current conversation. XD Unless she's been on her period for the past four months.

My advice to you: bring it up with her. I know that, before, I said that she would act with hostility. If she does, break up with her then and there. If you bring it up with her that you don't feel comfortable never being alone with her and she reacts angrily, it means that she doesn't truly appreciate you, and that can never fuel a successful relationship.  

[little mintchan]

dark| and what is wrong with her acting like a lez? just tell her to stop saying certain things that bother you.

sky| .-. wth you talking about boy.