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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 12:43 pm
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No I'm not in pain now >.>
The actual impact, that specific event of me getting hit? Was many years ago.
(to purple: you remember when mom homeschooled those 2 brats awhile back - you know, the ones that broke the door on your play-kitchen that you moved downstairs to get it out of your way - mom had me go down and watch them and while playing with a basketball, one of them hit me with it)
I don't even remember how long ago that was. But that was nothing really. I didn't get hit TOO hard, and it stopped hurting after a little bit.
But what really scared the s**t out of me was several years ago. And no, I don't think the 2 are connected in any way. (as in more then 5 probably) That's the event in question that worries me.
[I don't have any pain now (and yes, everything "functions" properly), but at that very short second (it didn't last but for a sec or 2) in the past, It was incredibly painful. I'm talking sharp searing pain in one specific spot. (one weird thing, is that a less intense version woke me out of a sound sleep about a week or 2 later - but it's location mirrored that exact spot, though on the other side)] = (nasty details)
I would have gone to a doctor for sure, if I had the money.
THAT's why I worry about hidden permanent damage.
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 4:55 pm
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 11:32 am
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 4:19 pm
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Dude: Huh. 'K, I wasn't expecting that. I had a whole different scenario in mind, so if that's how it happened, I'm actually slightly relieved and slightly concerned at the same time. That WAS many years ago; you ain't kiddin' about that. *does some math* That was between 8 and 12 years ago. eek So the real pain is unrelated to any actual physical trauma. Okay, that narrows it down, I'm sure. If you were that concerned about it, tho, I'm sure the 'rents would've footed the bill for you to see a doc. You have no trouble asking for money for random toys that you want, but you can't ask for help to see a doctor when you need to? confused I avoid doctors too, but if I'm in real pain, I go. I've been to the clinic three times this year alone. I'm not happy about it, but each time was necessary for one reason or another. I suspect embarrassment was a bigger factor than money for you.
Iakun: I'm sorta half joking, half serious. My job issues are really building, so I'm weighing my options. I'd like to go back to school, but that requires money, and I'm not sure I want to get a loan that big for something that may not pay off. I'd seriously think about moving somewhere else if I thought I had a better chance elsewhere.
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 4:28 pm
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 10:51 am
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 10:20 am
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 11:38 am
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 3:44 pm
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First, dude, do NOT call our parents assholes. Dad may be, but mom isn't. And there's no reason for that kind of name-calling in a permanent post.
Second, was it just for a second? You didn't mention that. If so, then you can't much blame mom for being unconcerned. She has to live with constant pain, which is why she complains. Momentary pains, regardless of intensity, in most parts of the body, are caused by little things that really don't need to be worried about. An infection, a muscle pull or tear, nerve damage (all things I've experienced) produce pain that lasts longer than a second. I understand you being miffed by the lack of "oh, poor baby" in her tone, but if you think about it, an extremely brief pain that doesn't reoccur really isn't much to be concerned about. I get those from time to time in various body parts; it's the chronic pains I worry about. And for the record, I don't get much sympathy from her either, unless I have a reoccurring or chronic pain to complain of. So it's not just you. After everything she's been through, it takes a little more to impress her, healthwise.
Third, looks like Iakun is your personal "doctor." xd
Fourth, if you REALLY wanted to see a doctor, you've got quite a wad saved up for the anime con. It's all about priorities. You've obviously chosen to put the con before anything else, so you can only blame yourself on that front. Not criticizing, btw. I've done my share of frivolous spending. I'm just saying that sometimes our priorities aren't what they should be, and if something is important enough to us, we'll find a way.
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Posted: Fri May 14, 2010 1:50 pm
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Purple: There, I removed it, happy?
Forgive me if I seem overly concerned, but it is my d**k after all. (not the same thing as even a sharp pain anywhere else, which I have also had BTW) [no where near as painful or worrysome] A very sensitive spot, that I use every F'ing day. So until you have a sharp searing pain in your [edit], don't tell me how serious to be about it! (yes, I took that as a personal insult)
Yes I have quite a bit saved for the con, but I doubt it would be enough for a doctors visit with as expensive as they are. If it's even 200, I wouldn't have enough.
And yeah. Iakun knows more then you do here. You're not qualified to tell me how concerned I should be. No woman would EVER be. (just to be fair, I'll agree that no man is qualified to tell anything to a woman either)
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Posted: Fri May 14, 2010 3:25 pm
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Posted: Sat May 15, 2010 12:22 pm
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Posted: Sat May 15, 2010 2:54 pm
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Second warning, dude. Watch the language. "********" is not acceptable word usage. This is not one of your porn forums. And for the record, I have had both sharp, searing pains and dull, chronic pains in that area. Why do you think I'm so careful about avoiding stuff that can give me an infection of the type that I'm so easily susceptible to? I've had them often enough that, yeah, I'm a little bit less sympathetic than you would like me to be. It's not like I've ever gotten much sympathy from you. You're always reminding me how cold and unfeeling the world is and how that's the reason you act the way you do. Well, prove it. Quit expecting sympathy from those you show no sympathy towards. If the world is cold, why should you expect anything from it?
Yes, you have enough for a visit to a doctor. Sans testing, it wouldn't be more than $50.
A woman doctor would be qualified, just to point that out. That's what they go to school for.
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Posted: Sat May 15, 2010 5:40 pm
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Posted: Sat May 15, 2010 6:12 pm
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Heh, not sure who that last part was directed at, but I agree. It is a lot easier to advise than to take our own advice. I admit dude's been pushing my psychological buttons, and I shouldn't let him. I've let myself get wrapped up in this argument in an effort to do exactly what I said I wasn't going to do anymore: try to show him a better way of life and perspective and get him to see the world outside of himself. I'd given up on that, but old habits die hard. It's hard to avoid in here, tho, when this is my guild and I have to keep an eye on it. It's hard to avoid commenting on stuff, correcting misconceptions, and responding to questions. I don't think I should avoid it, but I shouldn't let it take away my balance. I've meant everything I've said, so I won't apologize. But I will step back and distance myself.
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