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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:00 pm
ill b living with my aunt when i can get emancipated or when im old enough what im asking is what do i do in the mean time with him before my mom divorces him?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:05 pm
Have you tried talking to him about it? Does he realize what he's doing? Maybe you need to make him realize what he's doing to your family.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:07 pm
whatser_name Have you tried talking to him about it? Does he realize what he's doing? Maybe you need to make him realize what he's doing to your family. he knows he doesnt care my mother is just using him for his money then she is going to divorce him
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:12 pm
mousy angel whatser_name Have you tried talking to him about it? Does he realize what he's doing? Maybe you need to make him realize what he's doing to your family. he knows he doesnt care my mother is just using him for his money then she is going to divorce him Well I don't know what to tell you. If he knows about it, and still doesn't do anything he most likely wont get it. Thankfully your mom was smart enough to divorce him. I hate to tell you, but it looks like your going to have to try and stick it out. Get a summer job to try and focis on something else, and it will give you an excuse to get out of the house. Stay at friends house's a lot. Do what you can to keep yourself busy and away from your step-father.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:13 pm
Aw, this was a really great idea, and you're really great for wanting to help people like this. ^^
I'm not really sure how to explain my problem right now D: My boyfriend of just a little over 2 months broke up with me, and he's been really weird about it. First he'll blame himself, then he'll blame me, and he's so off-and-on about it I'm not really sure what the real reason he broke up with me is. First it was because he felt like he cheated on me while at his Boy Scout Camp, because he was flirting with a girl. Or rather, SHE was flirting with HIM. He wasn't at fault at ALL. But for some reason he felt really bad about it. Then after we broke up he kept telling me how bad I made him feel sometimes. And I hate it when guys say that AFTER we break up. I mean, why can't we talk about this BEFORE we decide anything? Anyway, sometimes he'll be really nice, and sometimes he'll be really mean. It scares me .__. But I think this might be somewhat because we haven't seen each other in awhile, so we've only talked over the internet, and I think things might be better once we get to see each other again. We're TRYING to still be friends but I'm not sure how well that's going to work. D:
Also, my ex-boyfriend [before this boyfriend I've been ranting about] seems to want to go back out with me, but I don't really want to because we've already gone out twice, he's too old for me [I'm 16, he's 20], he's too far away [well, not TOO far, he lives like 30 minutes away, but he doesn't have his license so we can never see each other] and I'm not really sure how much I like him.
Wow, I did -not- expect to type so much. xd sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:30 pm
P3NGW!N Aw, this was a really great idea, and you're really great for wanting to help people like this. ^^
I'm not really sure how to explain my problem right now D: My boyfriend of just a little over 2 months broke up with me, and he's been really weird about it. First he'll blame himself, then he'll blame me, and he's so off-and-on about it I'm not really sure what the real reason he broke up with me is. First it was because he felt like he cheated on me while at his Boy Scout Camp, because he was flirting with a girl. Or rather, SHE was flirting with HIM. He wasn't at fault at ALL. But for some reason he felt really bad about it. Then after we broke up he kept telling me how bad I made him feel sometimes. And I hate it when guys say that AFTER we break up. I mean, why can't we talk about this BEFORE we decide anything? Anyway, sometimes he'll be really nice, and sometimes he'll be really mean. It scares me .__. But I think this might be somewhat because we haven't seen each other in awhile, so we've only talked over the internet, and I think things might be better once we get to see each other again. We're TRYING to still be friends but I'm not sure how well that's going to work. D:
Also, my ex-boyfriend [before this boyfriend I've been ranting about] seems to want to go back out with me, but I don't really want to because we've already gone out twice, he's too old for me [I'm 16, he's 20], he's too far away [well, not TOO far, he lives like 30 minutes away, but he doesn't have his license so we can never see each other] and I'm not really sure how much I like him.
Wow, I did -not- expect to type so much. xd sweatdrop Thank you. :3
Well for the ex#1, boys are just like that. My ex is the same way. He told me the reason he broke up with me, and then told me more/worse reasons a few days later. Boys will just try and pin the reasons on the girl because they don't want to feel like a jerk or lose their feelings of dominance and masculinity. At least that's my theory. I wouldn't worry about him much. Being friends most likely wont work. I'll tell you that now. Maybe you can because you only dated for a few months. But most likely not. I personally thing it's a bad idea to be friends with exes. One person is going to end up regaining feelings, and then just get shot down. Plus, there's oodles of akwardness.
For ex#2, if you're not sure. DON'T DO IT. If you've already broken up twice, you're most likely going to break up again. I would suggest not dating him again because someone will most likely end up hurt.
So basically, I don't think it's a very good idea to associate much with either one of these boys. Exes are exes. And they're exes for a reason. :3
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:08 pm
whatser_name Thank you. :3
Well for the ex#1, boys are just like that. My ex is the same way. He told me the reason he broke up with me, and then told me more/worse reasons a few days later. Boys will just try and pin the reasons on the girl because they don't want to feel like a jerk or lose their feelings of dominance and masculinity. At least that's my theory. I wouldn't worry about him much. Being friends most likely wont work. I'll tell you that now. Maybe you can because you only dated for a few months. But most likely not. I personally thing it's a bad idea to be friends with exes. One person is going to end up regaining feelings, and then just get shot down. Plus, there's oodles of akwardness.
For ex#2, if you're not sure. DON'T DO IT. If you've already broken up twice, you're most likely going to break up again. I would suggest not dating him again because someone will most likely end up hurt.
So basically, I don't think it's a very good idea to associate much with either one of these boys. Exes are exes. And they're exes for a reason. :3 Haha, that's very true. With the second ex, it was more of a mutual thing when we broke up, but we did break up because we were having problems. He's been a great friend for me so far, but it does get a little awkward with him sometimes, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. D:
The problem with the first ex is that we were such great friends before, I really don't want to lose that. But I suppose I can always make more friends if it ends up not working. :3
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:11 pm
Well if you want to continue trying to be friends, there's nothing wrong with that. I just have never actually seen that work. DX I would bow down to you if you could. xD <3
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:18 pm
Wow. I've just read over what I've written to you, and I totally apologize. I didn't even realize what I was saying. I suppose I'm just overly bitter over my ex. He promised we would still be friends, but he never answered my calls/messages. But my friend was just over his house today and she said that he still has all the stuff I made him. And he was asking about me and such. And I just wanted to be like, "You'd know if you takled to me!" The type of relationship we had was basically bestfriend with benefits. But I got a little too serious. And he broke up with me. I still thought that we could always be friends, but I was wrong. He's just not comfortable with it, and I still love him. I actually saw him about 2 weeks ago and he would barely talk to me.
So yeah. I'm just a little bitter. I apologize. Dx I didn't mean to take it out on you. Truthfully, it would be amazing if you could still be friends. I would be endlessly jealous. x3
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:42 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 9:54 am
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 9:57 am
i have a problem about computer....wht is the best one for graphic designer and also computer art majors?
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 9:59 am
I don't know. Dx I'm sorry. I'm not really a computer person. I know more about life issues, and conflicts between people.
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 10:20 am
whatser_name Wow. I've just read over what I've written to you, and I totally apologize. I didn't even realize what I was saying. I suppose I'm just overly bitter over my ex. He promised we would still be friends, but he never answered my calls/messages. But my friend was just over his house today and she said that he still has all the stuff I made him. And he was asking about me and such. And I just wanted to be like, "You'd know if you takled to me!" The type of relationship we had was basically bestfriend with benefits. But I got a little too serious. And he broke up with me. I still thought that we could always be friends, but I was wrong. He's just not comfortable with it, and I still love him. I actually saw him about 2 weeks ago and he would barely talk to me.
So yeah. I'm just a little bitter. I apologize. Dx I didn't mean to take it out on you. Truthfully, it would be amazing if you could still be friends. I would be endlessly jealous. x3 Aw, that's okay. ^^ I know how you feel D: An old ex of mine did the same thing. He was like "SURE we can be friends" And never talked to me. rolleyes
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 10:27 am
P3NGW!N Aw, that's okay. ^^ I know how you feel D: An old ex of mine did the same thing. He was like "SURE we can be friends" And never talked to me. rolleyes Aww. x3 Boys are stupid. xD
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