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 Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 2:43 pm
Ayanami Rei First Child Gihn looks like some sort of mexican wrestler....and I wouldn't be so hard on yourself Jenn Jenn...you look less funny/strange then Gihn twisted Along with Reiyoko I will make sure my vanity will make up for your poor self image!! twisted Sheesh Rei why you gotta be so mean? For some people it takes a lot of courage to post their pics! Gihn, I'm sorry Rei can be so insensitive *stomps Rei's toes* I'm sure she knows not how mean she can be *leers at Rei*
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 2:51 pm
Ow! *Blushes* Hey I never said he was ugly though!! It's probably because he reminds me too much of Nacho Libre sweatdrop
Besides, if people aren't prepared for me to state my opinion as positive or negative, along with other members, then they shouldn't post it.
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Ayanami Rei First Child Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 3:36 pm
dramallama Well aren't we snooty! Sometimes bluntness is a blessing but in this instance it's not necessary. Get mad at me if you want I'm just sticking up for something I believe in. He was simply contributing his pictures and you go all "Simon" on him. Ever heard the saying "If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all." I'm sure a lot of us are self-conscious on here and I know . Now I will get off my soap box.
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 3:49 pm
Ayanami Rei First Child Well I had little to no friends irl.....and the friends I DID have were NOT using tact. They attacked me on more then one occation because I never even had a lover....where they had girlfriends. I had only a basic amount of tact...but if you actually looked at the people I hung out with irl...you would have realized that the need for more then basic tact was not needed and would have been harder to develope. I was not popular and many times I had little to no friends. I didn't really hang out with other people...and I kept to myself. Thus I can be rather blunt at times. Besides I find it ironic that Baloney can say any sort of mean lie, package it up as a joke, then deliver it off any times he wants and you find that okay. Yet when I actually tell the Truth not to be defensive....but informative that's wrong? What do you wish of me....to LIE? To say "Oh you're so good looking" when deep down that's WRONG? I'm sorry Tsuki, but I only lie when it's necessary....and to spare someone's feelings a little when they aren't that upset at my comment does not qualify as necessary... >__> You don't have to lie to be tactful. And about Baloney, he was joking. I know you don't think he was, but he really did not mean all those things he said. Sure it may have been irritating. *shrug* You, on the other hand, mean it. Beside, if you dislike him so much, why are you using his behavior as a cop-out? Shouldn't you try to be "better" than him in that respect? Didn't your mama ever tell you "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"? Haha, Goddess_Eris beat me to the saying. rofl Eris, you and your hubby are so cute! *___*
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 3:53 pm
Gihn_the_wolf Now its time for Gihn to show you what he is made of! haha!(sorry Rei this is gonna be a long one!) XD Great poses! Good times.
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:06 pm
Even if the mean things I say are what I actually mean....at least it's honest and Truth in my eyes.
Also I've never been a fan of that rule when it comes to how people looks....ESPECIALLY when they are looking for opinions.
Besides in my own eyes and values I AM being better then him by being honest as much as possible....even if it's to a fault. sweatdrop It's not as if I ENJOY telling people these things....unless I dislike them or mad at them....which I'm not >.<
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:34 pm
Sometimes the "truth" should not be said. There are certain times where you should not be your honest self, it comes out b***h-faced.
No one (mostly) is actually asking for an opinion, they just want to share their pictures with the rest of the guild members. It sort of strengthens bonds and whatnot.
Saying something like they are not attractive at all is kind of a jab to their ego.
I am sure you would not like it if everyone told the truth about you or your friends.
Just because you were not popular or you did not have many friends does not mean that you cannot learn how to use some tact when dealing with people. You are not exempt from the rules. And so on and so forth.
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:39 pm
Tsuki No Tragedy Sometimes the "truth" should not be said. There are certain times where you should not be your honest self, it comes out b***h-faced. No one (mostly) is actually asking for an opinion, they just want to share their pictures with the rest of the guild members. It sort of strengthens bonds and whatnot. Saying something like they are not attractive at all is kind of a jab to their ego. I am sure you would not like it if everyone told the truth about you or your friends. Just because you were not popular or you did not have many friends does not mean that you cannot learn how to use some tact when dealing with people. You are not exempt from the rules. And so on and so forth. Actually with most of the people I've hung out with...what I said WAS considered rather tactful o.o; Well I looked at them sharing a picture the same as mine...that they were asking for opinions. Hell I've gotten negative remarks about my picture, and yet it doesn't bother me that much because I ASKED for it. I never said I was exempt from the rules...merely that yours and my rules differ from eachother more....^^;
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Ayanami Rei First Child Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:56 pm
i thought you said you didnt have a lot of people who hung out with you, well i guess you writte the story as you go.
And they were probably being tactful by calling you tactful because what i see from your comments and attitude is a ...........( i leave it blank, but whoever wants to feel free to fill the gap)
And I dont see your pictures anywhere here O_o; , and i was going through "the baloney file" lol since you couldnt give me specific pages to read, and i saw he made a joke that you look 40 i think it was and you went all defensive, or maybe thats what act like when something "doesnt bother you".
Vega looks fine, kinda like a tough guy, wouldnt advise other guys to mess with him lol
And Ghin looks cool, independant and doesnt care much for 3rd party opinions, and is a fun loving dude.
Show your picture I wanna see what you look like, dont worry i will be tactfull, and no not your level of tactful.
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 5:20 pm
It's in the pictures thread....
I said people that HAVE.....which is a past tense....which I was using to mean within SEVERAL YEARS starting at 6th grade!
I also said CONSIDER tactful....NOT that they said I was tactful...again you are missinterpreting what I said. I was merely using the standards of tact from what little people I do hang out with now, as well as those in the past, and the majority of them would consider tact to lie when you can't say anything nice. Or that they are so UNtact by your and my standards that they would say MUCH nastier things. I would know from experience, and comments which WOULD be geared to put said person down, unlike mine.
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Ayanami Rei First Child Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 5:21 pm
Ayanami Rei First Child Actually with most of the people I've hung out with...what I said WAS considered rather tactful o.o; Well I looked at them sharing a picture the same as mine...that they were asking for opinions. Hell I've gotten negative remarks about my picture, and yet it doesn't bother me that much because I ASKED for it. I never said I was exempt from the rules...merely that yours and my rules differ from eachother more....^^; Just because you fish for compliments does not mean that is what everyone else is doing. And how is that considered tact in any group? Do you even know the meaning of tact? >___>;;
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 5:40 pm
I know what the meaning of tact is...it's just their tact is saying something that won't get your face punched in and stuff. At least that's my theory. Back in the day I really didn't have very good friends...although some of them have matured since.
Hell my friend Leo Gallo lied to my girlfriend saying she looked nice or something....but then later told me in secret that she was ugly and I could do a lot better. The same kind of guy who would get me a lapdance against my wishes...and keeps pestering me about how I NEED to get laid. Not really friends with him much anymore....but he used to be one of the friends around my age that I could count on one hand...
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Ayanami Rei First Child Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:38 pm
Gihn_the_wolf yes Rei I am aware that I look so funny thank you verey ******** you... stare wow! I got cencord...Asoume! anyhow thanks for suporting what damn near every brode has told me my entire life Rei. ya know I could go into a lecture about how you always complain about how everyone always made fun of you...but...its ok. well I dont know why I even hoped to get posatave feed back on my looks,since I NEVER have. so thank you for being hounest Rei. but what did I say hua? girls dont think I am atractave so thats probly why they dont give me a chance. is it my skin collor? you see I can confidently say I look more atractave then vega or jin(on offence ment guys) and you said you liked how they look,so I thought it wouldent be hard to get ONE complement from you.but if its my skin I could understand,not that I acuse you of raceisem in that sence but,I meen I find black skin to be quite ugly.so I could understand.
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:49 pm
*Twitches* I NEVER SAID YOU WERE UGLY!! Y
ou just seemed a little weird...but as I said that's probably because you remind me of a wrestler...or that Jack Black guy in that Nacho Libre movie. My opinion may very well have little to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with someone else.
Much like I view Janet Jackson to be ugly as she reminds me of her brother too much.
I also never said that there wouldn't be several girls who WOULD find you attractive....you just don't look like the types that I normally view as being "handsome" or whatever. Although that is not to say that you are ugly....if anything it could mean that you are rather plain looking.
Next time READ ALL of what I say....instead of the part that confirms your own fears. stare
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:55 pm
I read all of what you said. this is the exact impression you gave off.
you know you kind hurt my fealers Rei,not in the Im kinda mad way, but in the Im kinda sad way.
you diddent say anything good about me.
so are your thoughts as they stand? with you defending yourselfe even when I said you wer right?
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