Help me, I'm confused and don't want to hurt my friends

[this-is-shloop]

so, i like this guy (he's my ex) but he's popular and my friends and i hate popular people. he didn't used to be popular. so i told him that since they've changed him i can't talk to him very much. i've tried moving on but that's hard cuz he's in my home room class at school. i'm tired of crying myself to sleep praying for help and some one to save me from myself. hurting myself makes me feel better but it hurts my friends. even though they make fun of me for being emo and say that i cut myself, i don't want to. i need help on what to do with my boy problems and how to feel better. (cutting is not a choice) and don't say that because i don't cut i'm not emo, you don't know my story so shut the hell up. and cutting is just one of those emo sterotypes (no i can't spell) that all of my friends believe and make fun of. not all emo people cut.  

[The Dadalorian]

some friends....
it's your life you come before your friends
and why can't you talk to him much?
if your friends don't like the other friends you have
then it's time to get new ones
and i know you have more.
and how old are you anyhow  

[Zhiege]

If he's changed like that there may not be much you can do.
Try to move on, I guess.  

[this-is-shloop]

i've tried to move on. but everytime i see him or hear his name i cry. those friends are the only ones i have. everyone else is in "the group". i can't talk to him much is because he's in that group so he's changed. i don't want to hate him completely so i've decided to not talk to him and i hope things will get better.  

[The Dadalorian]

i doubt those are the only friends you have, unless you're still in grade school.
obviously if he's changed then he's not the same person you went out with in the first place, so find someone new.
plus you're porbably too young to really need a relationship  

[fckdandleft4dead]

if hes changed so much is he still the same person you liked?  

[this-is-shloop]

he's not the same person i liked. but he looks the same. so everytime i see him it reminds me of the person he used to be. i just want the old him back... he'll never be the same...  

[The Dadalorian]

then forget about him, there's other people.
obviously you're not ready to handle a relationship right now in your life  

[tedheadrocker]

i think u should decide for yourself....

if ur "friends" dont like it...then tell them to get over it and if they cant then get new friends...if they were your real friends and cared about you they would let you be happy and date who you want...


you dont have to take my advice....we dont know each other...

and it was just a suggestion...

[cliche moment coming]


.....listen to your heart....

[told u it was cliche].... dramallama  

[hitmeibleed]

k this ones pretty easy..

1. move on..there are plenty of guys out there.. 3nodding

2. about your friends..if they dont want whats best for you, if they dont want what makes you happy, then maybe you should just tell them to f*ck off and mind their own business..and if you still consider them as "friends" after what they're doing to you, maybe you should rethink your definition of "friendship"  

[The Kings Royal Baker]

I keep my answers short and simple
If he's doing all that to you, he's not worth your time. Try your best to move on, school relationships never work out anyway.

Oh and about it being hard to move on,
It's supposed to be hard to move on. That's why it's called heartbreak.  

[hitmeibleed]

ragnorok17

I keep my answers short and simple
If he's doing all that to you, he's not worth your time. Try your best to move on, school relationships never work out anyway.

Oh and about it being hard to move on,
It's supposed to be hard to move on. That's why it's called heartbreak.

agreed..except with the school relationships thing..  

[Mortal Apparition]

You said "Cutting is not a choice". It's always a choice. Maybe you should try a hobbu or something,or ditch you're friends:they aren;t good for your health.