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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 8:42 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:54 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 8:51 pm
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My suggestion is, if they wont listen to you after you try and reason with them (assuming you follow the advice of the above posters), then don't just say you don't want to go. Refuse. Simply refuse to go. Don't leave the house. Even if they punish you. Resist. Physically resist, if you have to (but I doubt you will). That's how I eventually got out of going to church with my mom on Sundays. At first she was mad, and asked me "Why?" a lot. I can't remember if I had told her I was Atheist yet... Yeah, I had. And she still asked why. I was uncomfortable there, I told her. She still was upset. But after about a month or so of refusing to go, and her telling me "Fine, if you don't go you can't do anything else; no TV, no computer, blah blah blah etc.", she finally gave up, got used to it, and now every weekend, she wakes up early and goes to church without a fuss, and I stay home and do what I want. And when she comes home in the afternoon, we don't mention church. We go on as usual.
It's a good agreement, the one we have. (: And it's worth the turbulence.
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