Another odd tip to be emo is sometimes the more bright neon colors you wear the better like i have neon pink skinnies and i will wear a neon yellow shirt with it. Plus for hair on girls have a long length on your hiar but short choppy layers now i know thats more of scene but scene emo and skate kinda all mix in the same really your just making a style of your own plus bangs dont have to cover your eyes you can have kinda straight cut bangs as long as they are thicker then normal bangs and go past your eyebrows. really the whole point to looking emo and scene or whatever is to stand out. Just dont be afraid to look different. My idea of all that is to just be yourself and not a poser.