Them chicks are confusing

[Snapplejack]

Jack here, continuing my quest to re-vamp this dying guild. For those of you who are new to the series, I am posting topics that catch peoples attention in as many forums as I can. Of course, these aren't fake forums, they are forums with two causes. To save this guild, and to express my innermost opinions/feelings/secrets. Alright, so on to my rant(I'm not that great at ranting... I'll try... for the sake of the guild).
Alright, there is this girl whom I have gone out with twice. We both REALLY like each other. We are totally comfortable with each other. I mean REALLY comfortable with each other. Metaphor=Backstage passes. Anyway, we kiss whenever and whatnot. We make each other laugh. Never have had a serious fight. We go to every high school dance. I'll ride her bus so I can hang with her for longer, then run the mile back home before dad get's pissed. Yet, as soon as we become legit boyfriend/girlfriend, our reltionship freezes. Ok, repeat after me: "What The Hell". Very good, class! *gives audience a cookie* It's peanut butter~! Anyway, that's it for the rant. I hope that was a rant. If not, I apologize sincerely for being such a *sniff* failure! Nah, just kidding. Peace, ya'll. I got more forums to post in.  

[Hoomiku]

Sounds to me like the ball landed in the Friend Zone.

Good luck with that one.  

[Snapplejack]

Hoomiku

Sounds to me like the ball landed in the Friend Zone.

Good luck with that one.

LMAO! Damn. *shrugs* I'm cool with that, I guess.  

[Tiga]

That doesn't sound like friend zone AT ALL. I mean, he said once they became a couple things froze up.

...That's definitely not friend zone if she's his girlfriend.  

[Hoomiku]

Tiga

That doesn't sound like friend zone AT ALL. I mean, he said once they became a couple things froze up.

...That's definitely not friend zone if she's his girlfriend.

Then the question remains: Why did the relationship freeze so suddenly?  

[Hodari]

Same thing happens with me and a guy I've dated twice. I love him to death and he loves me, but things change as soon as the relationship title gets tagged on. We, if anything, work as friends with benefits or something along the lines of an Open Relationship. For some reason its the title that changes things. All of a sudden its not okay if someone forgets to call or call back. Being ignored is suddenly a giant deal. Things that you do as just friends dont work as well when in a relationship. The entire dynamics of a friendship changes when in a relationship. You pay more attention to any nuance that may bother you. Its not something you can change really. She isnt in the Friend Zone, but also not entirely workable as a Relationship. Its in that weird middle ground or Friendship/Relationship.