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Posted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 6:43 pm
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All too often, I feel like I’m the equalizer. When I enter an environment, I feel I must assess the current attitude of it and then choose the exact opposite of it. If there is a negative mood around a group, I will try to bright it, when there is a good mood, without trying I will bring it down. If there is lax attitude, I enter some discipline and verse reverse. Why is that? Am I the embodiment of reverse physiology? Whenever I want to do the things I want to do, not what this “equalizer” wants to do. I fail at it, I try to go with the flow and I’m ignored or made fun of. I’m tired of fixing people and situations or be the person who ended the fun. It seems that it was never my destiny to be a normal person; I’m always sticking out, making a statement, and being part of the solution or part of the problem. I’m so integral to the group but never part of it. This is my blessing and my curse. Even as I write this note about myself, I know the next day I will not be the equalizer, because I’m also the equalizer of myself. Which will afford me some peace but my role will sneak up on me again, to let me know of my place in this world.
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 10:33 am
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 12:19 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 22, 2008 11:06 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:13 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 12:40 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 1:31 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 7:59 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:13 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 10:14 am
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