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Fee blanche

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 01, 2010 3:01 pm
Hello, I'm Fee.

Recently I've dicovered I'm Bi-Sexual.
I really want to tell my friends this, because I think they have the right to know this.
But, I have no idea how to tell them this, because it's an awkward subject for me.
I don't know if I should come right out and be like 'I'M BI!" or just be subtle about it..

Plus I'm scared about what their reactions would be.
The might be creeped out, and shocked, cause theres only one other person at my school who isn't straight.
Or something completely different..

Sorry, I'm probably making a big deal out of nohing..
But could you give me any advice on this?
 
PostPosted: Fri Oct 01, 2010 7:41 pm
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Try to talk to them about it. Ease into the conversation slowly.
If they are true friends, they will still love and expect you for who you are. It probably is slightly scary but they should understand.
I hope this helps a little.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:24 pm
you should just explain to them about ure positon. then see where it goes from there  
PostPosted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 6:50 pm
I heard a quote once. It goes something like this:

"Do not explain. Your friends do not need it, and your enemies will not believe you."

I believe that whole-heartedly. You shouldn't shout it out to the world--people, certain people, will hold that against you, so don't give them an advantage--but you should tell people you really think are your friends. If they love you and they trust you and they are your real friends, they'll be okay with it, trust me.
I recently found out that a friend of mine (no names) is gay and I was totally straight with her: I accept her as her. Nothing more and nothing less, so don't hold anything back. And she didn't. I'm proud of her for it. So...don't act like you're the only bi in the world. Be proud, stand tall, and tell your friends with a calm, sure look in your eyes.  

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 6:52 pm
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Ⓩetsumei ⓈⒶⓎⓈ . . .


Kleopatra Selene is right. Be proud, do stand tall and know you are not alone and everything will be alright. ^^




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PostPosted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 4:26 pm
Thank you guys for your advice.
It's all really helpful.

I'm going to tell them tomorrow maybe.
I just want it to be just be us and no other people around when I tell them.
I'm not afraid of tellig people, I just don't know how..

Thank You!
 

Fee blanche

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