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 Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:13 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 6:43 pm
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Since you say you have a lot in common start with that. However, if you are both annoyed by the same thing too, then talk about that first or directly afterward. For whatever reason, everyone likes to vent/complain about something they don't like and it's refreshing to have someone vent with you. But if you do try this, stay away from anything political or religious. For example, complaining about having people trying to convert you or how you can't stand Sarah Palin/ Obama are REALLY BAD starters. Stay away from controversial topics in general, that's some really thin ice, unless you already know his views on that kind of stuff. Try starting with pet peeves, like people kicking your chair or something small. But don't take this approach to much or he'll think you're annoying, try it two times at most. Common interests are cliche but work well too.
Second, if you have any time together, try and start an inside joke. Believe it or not, these CAN be intentionally started. It's a little manipulative, but no more so than a stuffed push up bra, I'm just sayin'. I'll give you one. Some of the biggest inside jokes are messed up words or words combined on accident. Try asking if he wants to go get a slushie (or slurpie, icee, ect.), only trip over the word "slushie" like you can't decide whether to say that or "slurpie". You'll end up saying something ridiculous like "sluppie" or "slurshie". It's practically guaranteed to get a laugh and you'll probably be calling it that forever, and when your out with friends you say it and only you two get it. It's fun, now you have an inside joke and a delicious icy beverage! (bring money so he doesn't feel forced to buy it for you). But inside jokes will always eventually come with prompting as long as you spend time with him.
Happy flirting!
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 11:15 am
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