.... It's my fault...

[My darling Deer]

On tuesday I broke up with my girlfriend..... so she can be with her abusive ex today she broke up with him she begged me to go back with her I said no I only want to be friends she told me she swallowed pills and now she's in the hospital cause I moved on and I won't take her back *starts crying* and now her brother is blaming me that she's dieing I dunno what to do!!!!!!  

[My darling Deer]

She's alive.... thank god  

[00Shoe]

I don't mean to sound cold. But this would be a huge mistake to get back together with her. Someone who is willing to do that to themselves is not someone you want to have in your life. It is a cowardly way to manipulate others.

Think very carefully about what you do next.  

[My darling Deer]

00Shoe

I don't mean to sound cold. But this would be a huge mistake to get back together with her. Someone who is willing to do that to themselves is not someone you want to have in your life. It is a cowardly way to manipulate others.

Think very carefully about what you do next.

I know I'm not together with her she texted me back I told her to go die in a dark abyss filled with tears of dying babys
I know it's dark but its true

EDIT:
She texted me before she tryed killing herself
Hey Amby Wamby <3
(I HATED that nickname -_-)  

[sandrock_buck]

I've seen this happen to a few friends before, and I more than agree with Shoe on this. People who use self mutilation, suicide, or threats to get someone to be with them are not only incredibly selfish, but more often than not need professional help. Thankfully, you were able to resist this girl's grip and although you said something that was pretty cold, you should in no way blame her problem on yourself. It was not your fault that she decided to swallow pills in an attempt to get back at/with you. Truthfully, I would cut contact with this girl until she figures out that you two are not going to happen. IF and/or when that happens, the she can try to go back to being your friend, but until then, I wouldn't go near the girl. As for her brother blaming you for what she's doing to herself, simply explain to him that you do not want to be with someone who lies and tries to manipulate you.  

[My darling Deer]

Jonstalker62

I've seen this happen to a few friends before, and I more than agree with Shoe on this. People who use self mutilation, suicide, or threats to get someone to be with them are not only incredibly selfish, but more often than not need professional help. Thankfully, you were able to resist this girl's grip and although you said something that was pretty cold, you should in no way blame her problem on yourself. It was not your fault that she decided to swallow pills in an attempt to get back at/with you. Truthfully, I would cut contact with this girl until she figures out that you two are not going to happen. IF and/or when that happens, the she can try to go back to being your friend, but until then, I wouldn't go near the girl. As for her brother blaming you for what she's doing to herself, simply explain to him that you do not want to be with someone who lies and tries to manipulate you.

Yeah It was pretty cold.... sweatdrop but it's true I don't wanna see her ******** skanky lieing a** again I mean with all the damn guilt I had yesterday I was crying for the rest of the day I know she was ******** pixel realionship but when someone blames me for atempted suicide it was pretty deep on my heart..... I'm just happy I had someone that cares about me that texts me to talk to...... so yeah it's her fault not mine...  

[00Shoe]

Rabid Zombie Wolves x3

Jonstalker62

I've seen this happen to a few friends before, and I more than agree with Shoe on this. People who use self mutilation, suicide, or threats to get someone to be with them are not only incredibly selfish, but more often than not need professional help. Thankfully, you were able to resist this girl's grip and although you said something that was pretty cold, you should in no way blame her problem on yourself. It was not your fault that she decided to swallow pills in an attempt to get back at/with you. Truthfully, I would cut contact with this girl until she figures out that you two are not going to happen. IF and/or when that happens, the she can try to go back to being your friend, but until then, I wouldn't go near the girl. As for her brother blaming you for what she's doing to herself, simply explain to him that you do not want to be with someone who lies and tries to manipulate you.

Yeah It was pretty cold.... sweatdrop but it's true I don't wanna see her ******** skanky lieing a** again I mean with all the damn guilt I had yesterday I was crying for the rest of the day I know she was ******** pixel realionship but when someone blames me for atempted suicide it was pretty deep on my heart..... I'm just happy I had someone that cares about me that texts me to talk to...... so yeah it's her fault not mine...

I agree with @Jonstalker62, you should cut off all contact with her. Delete her number from your phone, delete her as a friend from facebook, remove her from your circles in google+ (if you have it), remove her from your contacts in any address book. Cut her out completely.  

[My darling Deer]

00Shoe

Rabid Zombie Wolves x3

Jonstalker62

I've seen this happen to a few friends before, and I more than agree with Shoe on this. People who use self mutilation, suicide, or threats to get someone to be with them are not only incredibly selfish, but more often than not need professional help. Thankfully, you were able to resist this girl's grip and although you said something that was pretty cold, you should in no way blame her problem on yourself. It was not your fault that she decided to swallow pills in an attempt to get back at/with you. Truthfully, I would cut contact with this girl until she figures out that you two are not going to happen. IF and/or when that happens, the she can try to go back to being your friend, but until then, I wouldn't go near the girl. As for her brother blaming you for what she's doing to herself, simply explain to him that you do not want to be with someone who lies and tries to manipulate you.

Yeah It was pretty cold.... sweatdrop but it's true I don't wanna see her ******** skanky lieing a** again I mean with all the damn guilt I had yesterday I was crying for the rest of the day I know she was ******** pixel realionship but when someone blames me for atempted suicide it was pretty deep on my heart..... I'm just happy I had someone that cares about me that texts me to talk to...... so yeah it's her fault not mine...

I agree with @Jonstalker62, you should cut off all contact with her. Delete her number from your phone, delete her as a friend from facebook, remove her from your circles in google+ (if you have it), remove her from your contacts in any address book. Cut her out completely.

Totally did that all I don't even have a facebook .-.  

[00Shoe]

Rabid Zombie Wolves x3

Totally did that all I don't even have a facebook .-.

Excellent! I think you will be better off biggrin  

[My darling Deer]

00Shoe

Rabid Zombie Wolves x3

Totally did that all I don't even have a facebook .-.

Excellent! I think you will be better off biggrin

Mhm ^^  

[blazewing2010]

Rabid Zombie Wolves x3

On tuesday I broke up with my girlfriend..... so she can be with her abusive ex today she broke up with him she begged me to go back with her I said no I only want to be friends she told me she swallowed pills and now she's in the hospital cause I moved on and I won't take her back *starts crying* and now her brother is blaming me that she's dieing I dunno what to do!!!!!!

Being 27 and having seen this time and time again, let me first stop and say

I'm sorry.

I know this is rough for you.

Point is, she's controlling, I had a girlfriend once try to use suicide to get me not to leave her. I left anyways. SHe swallowed the pills. It's not a cry for attention, it's a way of controlling and manipulating a person based on emotion and feeling.

DO you really want to be with someone like that? You've set limits at this point, and she was unwilling to accept them. I'm not saying being with the abusive ex was any better, but this girl needs to learn to accept reality.  

[Sexpistol20]

Remember you are not responsible for her reactions a person is only responsible for their own. She didn't have to take the pills hunny you are not responsible however you should be willing to console her if you feel the need and if it helps you because again it isn't your fault smile I hope she gets better and doesn't do those kinds of things again