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Neko Oishii Mashumaro

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 3:00 pm
Quick question everyone...Does Having Feelings and wanting to keep things in order and harmony means starting drama? For me i don't think so....tell me what you all think

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 5:34 pm
I think it depends on how assertive or forceful you are about it, but no.

I also have a question, what item is that yellow staff/scythe thing from? xd  

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 5:46 pm
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I think it depends on how assertive or forceful you are about it, but no.

I also have a question, what item is that yellow staff/scythe thing from? xd


the item is Lawful Master :3  
PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:45 pm
Neko Oishii Mashumaro
Quick question everyone...Does Having Feelings and wanting to keep things in order and harmony means starting drama? For me i don't think so....tell me what you all think

Sincerely ~Neko Oishii Mashumaro~


Explain a little further please!  

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:45 pm
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Quick question everyone...Does Having Feelings and wanting to keep things in order and harmony means starting drama? For me i don't think so....tell me what you all think

Sincerely ~Neko Oishii Mashumaro~


Explain a little further please!


that some people think that having feelings and caring for others means being dramatic and starting drama...i always stick up for what's right in life and i get shot down and called their worst enemy and a drama starter...  
PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:58 pm
There is a difference between expressing how you feel or think about something and turning it into a source of drama.

Ex:
Not drama....
Person one: Do you like MLP?
Person two: Don't know...never watched it before.
Person one: You should watch it sometime.....


Drama.....
Person one: Do you like MLP?
Person two: Don't know....never watched it before.
Person one: What the hell...you've never watched MLP? What's wrong with you? You're such a loser.


Clear difference. Having an oppinion and speaking your mind are completely fine as long as you don't cross the line of turing it into drama. Just watch the boundries.  

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:00 pm
Neko Oishii Mashumaro
that some people think that having feelings and caring for others means being dramatic and starting drama...i always stick up for what's right in life and i get shot down and called their worst enemy and a drama starter...


Well that just makes no sense... It sounds like the other side is the one creating drama.  
PostPosted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:20 pm
POOOOOOONIEESSSSSSSSSS!!!!  

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 6:40 pm
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Neko Oishii Mashumaro
that some people think that having feelings and caring for others means being dramatic and starting drama...i always stick up for what's right in life and i get shot down and called their worst enemy and a drama starter...


Well that just makes no sense... It sounds like the other side is the one creating drama.


Exactly!!! You Understand....yet i'm the one that's being called a bad guy  
PostPosted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 6:47 pm
Neko Oishii Mashumaro
Exactly!!! You Understand....yet i'm the one that's being called a bad guy


There is always the option of not caring biggrin Then you don't have to feel like the bad guy (even know you aren't)  

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 12:37 am
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Neko Oishii Mashumaro
Exactly!!! You Understand....yet i'm the one that's being called a bad guy


There is always the option of not caring biggrin Then you don't have to feel like the bad guy (even know you aren't)
I like this option  
PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 1:09 am
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Exactly!!! You Understand....yet i'm the one that's being called a bad guy


There is always the option of not caring biggrin Then you don't have to feel like the bad guy (even know you aren't)
I like this option


I have to disagree with you two on this. By ignoring and acting as if you don't care, depending on the other party, it could make matters worse. The better option would be to make it clear that you don't wish to continue on the subject...agree to disagree and let it be. Don't ignore it, but don't feed it.  

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 12:14 pm
Neko Oishii Mashumaro
a better grey color is #ABABAB  
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