I think i did a dumb thing.

[Bonnie[Heart]Clyde]

kay.
so i have a friend named briton.
she has gotten way on my nearves lately.
saying stuff like
"nobody likes me"
"just because your so mature doesn't mean i can't act like a kid."
stuff like that.
briton is a cutter.
and i told her that she is an immature brat and to ******** off.
did i do the right thing?

 

[xXBunnyIsAnOutLawXx]

It depends on how she takes it.
Go up to her tell her you were having a bad day.
And tell her (take her somewhere she cant run away and no one else is around) that you need to talk. Tell her how you feel.
Give here these choices.
1you can go through and tell each other things that bother you about one another but then cant use it against each other after you leave the room.
or
2 you can tell her in an easy were way to back off what she is saying
either way you should try to help her stop thinking like that and stop cutting.

If you want to pm me or ask something go ahead.

 

[Bonnie[Heart]Clyde]

Its kinda too late for that.

 

[xXBunnyIsAnOutLawXx]

You should still try.

 

[Bonnie[Heart]Clyde]

she's on vacation.

 

[xXBunnyIsAnOutLawXx]

Oh,thats fine it gives her time to think!

 

[xXdiamonds_cutXx]

Sometimes people like that need to feel like no one loves them. Sometimes you need to tell them to grow up. I know that that helped me.... of course it took almost dying to get me to realize how dumb i was....
But I think in your case if i gave you advice i would just be repeating something.
feel free to PM me.  

[Thida Fxcking Tragedy++]

ehh One of my friend's friend does that all the time saying "Oh my life sucks kill me" "Please take a knife and kill me now!" I CAN"T STAND IT and s**t like that. I hate her she's so stupid trying to get all this attention! god. she even leaves saying fine if you don't care i'm leaving. and runs off thinking we're going to chase her! and guess what she's starting to put make up on(very badly may i add) and she's trying to copy my look! and she's a ******** prep. and ugh

Well tell her be happy with what she has in life and deal with it. tell her you hate that she wants to die. and if she wants to die SOOOOOO bad just tell her to kill herself if she doesn't stop

 

[Rocket Fueled]

COMPLETELY.

If someone is a nutcase and is getting on your nerves, they have the right to know so that they can stop it. Its a win-win situation.

In fact, if I were you and she annoyed me to no end, I'd probably suggest a therapist.  

[Archangel Izual]

Epitaph for Cadaver

COMPLETELY.

If someone is a nutcase and is getting on your nerves, they have the right to know so that they can stop it. Its a win-win situation.

In fact, if I were you and she annoyed me to no end, I'd probably suggest a therapist.

actually...
if somebody is a cutter and they're just apathetic to find a reason not to, they'll take every situation and use it as a reason to cut.

If you tell a cutter like that, that the way they act bother's you, they'll cut anyways......  

[Rocket Fueled]

I understand that, but THATS why you have to tell them they need help.

BECAUSE THEY DO.  

[FalseDiagnosis]

One of my best friends is a cutter. She has scars all over her arms, but she's stopped doing it. Last year she had really bad cuts all over. But she's been going to therapy and family counseling and all that stuff.

I suggest you just flatly tell her, "Hey, I don't mean to offend you or anything, but what you've been doing is really, well, intolerable."
Or something like that.