S & M

[Loki Iago]

Alright, I hope this isn't awkward. I've noticed a trend that my friends who are into this sort of music and lifestyle are also into S&M (myself partially included). I am not very hardcore but there are certain activities in which I will participate in.

Do you think there is a link between a darker lifestyle and a darker taste in sexuality? (Feel free to draw upon personal experience)  

[Archangel Izual]

sometimes.... i guess....

although... when i was "dark" and all depressed... i was still a sensitive guy.... not that i'm not a virgin... i just..... i couldn't do anything sexual without being sensitive and gentle and loving ...... it wouldn't be right....

i've ******** around with girls i didn't love.... but that just tore me to pieces because i felt like i used them....  

[Loki Iago]

Archangel Izual

sometimes.... i guess....

although... when i was "dark" and all depressed... i was still a sensitive guy.... not that i'm not a virgin... i just..... i couldn't do anything sexual without being sensitive and gentle and loving ...... it wouldn't be right....

i've ******** around with girls i didn't love.... but that just tore me to pieces because i felt like i used them....

Yeah, I often feel like the stuff I'm into is all fake. I mean I enjoy it but I could never have an intimate relationship with someone with it solely based on violence. A little roughhousing is fun but after that I'd like to just cuddle down. I am such a weird uke...

On that note, I have such a huge problem labeling myself that way! I hate inferiority so why do I like these sexual activities?? confused  

[[. Negative Exposure .]]

I can, like, hit them playfully...but I wouldn't ever want to actually hurt 'em. ...That would just be mean...  

[Loki Iago]

The Great Lady Yuki

I can, like, hit them playfully...but I wouldn't ever want to actually hurt 'em. ...That would just be mean...

See that's a very fuzzy line for me. The things I like it's hard to not go too far---meh that's why this is a "life issue" stressed
Oh well, I'd never do anything that could send them to the hospital that's for sure.  

[Morisila_Ardiel]

I'm always a little nervous when my boyfriend and I mess around with it, but I go with it, because I might like it. If I don't, or if I'm too uncomfortable, I give him the sign and we stop...

But anyway..In my situation there isn't too much of a connection with the music and the lifestyle. My boyfriend is almost the posterboy for the stereotypical Gamer Geek with the IQ of like 175 (actually, I don't know his IQ, but you get the point I'm trying to put across?) who listens to all kinds of music. I also listen to all kinds of things, not one Genre more so than another...  

[Hugsei]

I went through an extremely dark phase awhile back and it did change how I looked at my sexual life, I was into biting and being bitten, i was into the whole chained to a bed thing, but then my parents really got under my skin and I have just been depressed so I'm a lot more gentle, and a lot more timid.