All I Need Is Some People To Help Me Through This..

[TCBmae]

Me and my boyfriend have been together since the 3rd of July. It's the best relationship I've ever been in and we're meant to be; everyone says it.
These past few weeks have been excruciating for us. We're talking twice a week; and that's maximum.
Right now, he's living in Pennsylvania. Where am I? In Canada. He was supposed to come up for X-mas break, but he can't get enough money to come. He can't get a job because nobody will hire him.
Right now I'm going through one of the toughest things I've been through in a long while. Some of my close friends have given me credit for keeping a long distance relationship for so long. Now, I feel as if it's only being held together by two things: a thread. and fate.
I'm not looking for people to trash talk me and to tell me to get a life and to stop acting all depressive. I'm here to find shoulders to lean on. Even though I don't know any of you, I know that I love people. And anything with a positive social interaction will help me.
You can't fight against fate and expect to win..but I will at least try my hardest until there's no grain of sand left of hope in the situation.

So if you're here to try and "burn me", or take out some anger on me because I'm having a bad week, ******** off. Save your breath on something that won't take it away.
 

[[Opheliac]]

MSN: ililiequist@hotmail.com

I don't know you, but I can be there for you.  

[Godsmacks_Voodoo_Doll]

I can be there for you too. I might even be able to help.. I might not be able to, who knows.  

[Rellik San]

Been there done that, in simple terms, a LDR is hard, when its good it feels like the best thing ever, when its bad, its even more crushing because you can't face your issues head on, thats before time zones is a factor.

All your friends say its meant to be, if it is, it will be, nothing more, nothing less. LDR is dangerous, no matter what people say. Because in the end, everything is amplified by 10. Just relax, it will sort itself out in the end. Patience is a virtue.... and all you have in this situation.  

[TCBmae]

Thank you guys so much. And I added you to MSN, NutCaseFreaks. It's already going a bit better.

Thank the Lord for music, friends, and communication.
Without it, I'd be dead.

*hugs the three of them* I'll add you to my friendlist as well. All three of you. smile
 

[Rellik San]

*shrugs* Its not really that big a deal... Giving advice I mean.  

[TCBmae]

Rellik San

*shrugs* Its not really that big a deal... Giving advice I mean.

I added you to MSN, Rellik.
 

[Rellik San]

Yeah I just found out lol. biggrin  

[Frizzzz]

frizzy_mc@hotmail.com  

[Ky-Kaisuke]

Long distance relationships can be pretty hard. I'm having one right now. But anyways, the hardest thing about a long distance relationship is that you never really know what the other person in doing. All you need is trust in each other, and knowing that the other won't go behind your back and try to get with somebody else, and then even if he can't see you face to face, atleast you'll know that your still in his heart. That should be all that matters.
tallncuban@hotmail.com

 

[Breathe_In_Ecstacy]

Ive been in a LDR and it didnt work out for me...but i do believe that if it is fate it will work out and you will be together in the end. i dont know how long it would take but i do think you will be together. my hopes are with you.  

[Konstantine Keys]

Hi Sweetie!
I know how you feel!
My bf is in Japan and I am in the United States!
I get upset a lot!

PM if you need to talk!

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Konstantine