Put me to sleep, evil angel...
A guy asked me today if he could spend Valentine's Day with me. I told him off.
No, no, there's more to this story.
Remember that guy I met in October?
The cousin of a friend. We've been talking for a little while. Well we decided against a relatioship recently, like finally actually talked it out. Neither of us want to get into a long distance thing. So he made a rule--not me, him--and he says that I'm allowed to date other people, but he isn't. I said he could, he says he won't. (That way, if I date someone else, I look like a b***h. Oh well.) He claims that even though we're not together, he's still taken by me. *gag* I told him he's crazy.
Anyway, as far as I knew, we were officially on the friend road, at least until we're more geographically convienient for each other. Then today, he calls (for the first time in over a week), and asks about Valentine's Day. I was like, no. Not gonna play that game. He didn't understand why it bothered me, we like each other (love in his case...), so what's wrong with spending it together.
One: I hate V-day. Just on principle. Didn't spend it with the guy I was dating last year, and we were actually dating. Don't like it even when in an actual relationship.
Two: I compared it to dangling a carrot from a stick in front of a horse to make him walk. He sees it, and moves toward it, wants it, but can't have it. That's what he'd be doing to me with a relationship. "I wanna spend Romance Day with you, but I'm not gonna try to actually be with you."
He's the one that straight up said no to the relationship. I was willing to give the distance thing a try. I haven't mentioned any form of dating since, but he pulls crap like this all the time. I'm over it. He made a decision, and I would appreciate it if he stuck by it and didn't tease me like that.
*sigh* I didn't mean to type that much. My appologies, but you know how I get when I start venting. sweatdrop
Anyway, the moral of the story is: I told a guy off for wanting to spend Heart Day with me. I'm only a little weird sometimes, I swear.
No, no, there's more to this story.
Remember that guy I met in October?
The cousin of a friend. We've been talking for a little while. Well we decided against a relatioship recently, like finally actually talked it out. Neither of us want to get into a long distance thing. So he made a rule--not me, him--and he says that I'm allowed to date other people, but he isn't. I said he could, he says he won't. (That way, if I date someone else, I look like a b***h. Oh well.) He claims that even though we're not together, he's still taken by me. *gag* I told him he's crazy.
Anyway, as far as I knew, we were officially on the friend road, at least until we're more geographically convienient for each other. Then today, he calls (for the first time in over a week), and asks about Valentine's Day. I was like, no. Not gonna play that game. He didn't understand why it bothered me, we like each other (love in his case...), so what's wrong with spending it together.
One: I hate V-day. Just on principle. Didn't spend it with the guy I was dating last year, and we were actually dating. Don't like it even when in an actual relationship.
Two: I compared it to dangling a carrot from a stick in front of a horse to make him walk. He sees it, and moves toward it, wants it, but can't have it. That's what he'd be doing to me with a relationship. "I wanna spend Romance Day with you, but I'm not gonna try to actually be with you."
He's the one that straight up said no to the relationship. I was willing to give the distance thing a try. I haven't mentioned any form of dating since, but he pulls crap like this all the time. I'm over it. He made a decision, and I would appreciate it if he stuck by it and didn't tease me like that.
*sigh* I didn't mean to type that much. My appologies, but you know how I get when I start venting. sweatdrop
Anyway, the moral of the story is: I told a guy off for wanting to spend Heart Day with me. I'm only a little weird sometimes, I swear.
...Open your wings, evil angel
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