happiness is fleeting

[Bandito_loves_hookers]

ok so it seems like im never happy... and when i am finally happy with my life the happiness is short lived...something always happens to make me unhappy again...im not saying my life is horrible.. i mean everyone has their problems and im sure there are people who have had it worse off than me but it seems like my issues will never leave me alone...
the other day i asked my friend...not really to get an answer...why i was never happy
to which he replied
" maybe cuz you wont let yourself be"
is this possible? i mean is it possible to keep yourself from being happy? and if so why cant i tell? what would cause it?
Also, if that is the case how could i fix it? or get rid of it?
please read all posts before posting advice...thanks anyone who offer to help or can help

 

[Bandito_loves_hookers]

anyone around to help?  

[The Dadalorian]

maybe you jsut tihnk about it so much, and it's bringign yourself down
he could be right
all you ahve to do is realize that you need to get over yourself  

[Rellik San]

Actually it is possible to make sure your never happy, its a subconscious trick of the mind, that makes you find fault when you are happy, by questioning things like, if you truly deserve. The best way to get by that is take up a creative hobby, I don't mean poetry or art either, I mean say like building bir houses and such, something physical, and something that will allow you to take pride in what you build, helping you subconscious to realise that you have a right to be happy, because your creating something that makes others happy in the process.  

[XXX Zombie Porn]

Maybe you have anxeity? My dad has it as well as depression and he gets bouts of being happy and then questions it.

Maybe see your doctor or a school counciller?