i need help. im in love

[cool coel]

need help i in love wit a girl and dont know wot to do. how shud i impress her?  

[Dripping Angel Blud]

Tell her how you feel smile  

[CrimsonxXxSolace]

ditto.  

[Wirai]

Thats wonderfully specific. You shouldn't be out to impress her or win her over. The thing about love is it can only be given, never taken. I recommend being her friend first. If you're under 16, my personal philosophy is don't even bother with romance. Life is hard enough at that age. If you're of a decent age, then self analyze if you're really in love with her. I'm so tired of puppy 'love' it isn't even funny.

Grats to entering a world of a lot of hardship, kid. They tell me its worth it in the end.  

[jendes5555]

im sorry but i disagree about the first be friends being in a couple is harder if your friends first i mean it not easy hereing your best friend tell you they love you but thats just my opinoin  

[Wirai]

Being friends means you know more about each other without the pressures of actual dating. It also keeps you from adding to either your rejection list or your break up list if it turns out you're not really in love with her. Not to mention the fact that if you were freinds before you started dating, you have that previous friendship to fall back on whne things get rough. All of the relationships that have gone well for me started out as friendships. All of my bad ones started with straight up dating.  

[WolfWhiteCloud]

i agree with the being friends first. i was willing to marry someone and the last time he said anything to me was on my b-day (last september). he wont even text me an answer if we can at least be friends. but all of my friends that i broke up with in the past have stayed my friends. so i say be friends first.

3nodding  

[ZarialAmeraise]

questions-
ages?
on/offline?
how long have you loved her for?
how well do you know her?
what does she like/
what do you like/
what do you have in common?
have you ever danced in a penguin suit?  

[Wirai]

I lul at the last question...  

[ZarialAmeraise]

Lieutenant Sarach Hawkeye

I lul at the last question...

tsk tsk. this is no laughing matter.  

[Wirai]

On the contrary- I think its hysterical. Much of the youth of today have no class. But that is irrelevant to my previous statement. I found your question amusing; you're quite random. Rather appropriate to have you as the chat forum moderator.  

[ZarialAmeraise]

Lieutenant Sarach Hawkeye

On the contrary- I think its hysterical. Much of the youth of today have no class. But that is irrelevant to my previous statement. I found your question amusing; you're quite random. Rather appropriate to have you as the chat forum moderator.

lol, true, true.

but its not a random question.(its actualy an inside joke that noone around here gets. a previous suitor of mine tried to win my heart that way. he fell over within two seconds and couldnt get up.) its a serious question.  

[CyberOnWebCam]

cool coel

need help i in love wit a girl and dont know wot to do. how shud i impress her?

well, girls at my age like guys who are sweet,kind,affectionatte,not afraid to show their feelings. u dont have to do this...in fact DONT do this, but it always made my heart melt when i saw a guy trying to hide the fact that hes crying. girls like me dont like guys who r TOO flirty,abnoxious,mean,a player,or who make fun of us,even if its teasing. alot of girls get reallysensitive when a guy they like makes fun of tem, it can turn them off quickly. to impress her, since valentines day is coming up, get her a rose and a small box of chocolates. before she sees u, put it at her seat and dont put ur name. just put a hint thatother people wouldnt notice, but she would know it was u. hope this helps! ^.^  

[Morwen Vipertooth]

just try to talk to her and get to know her. That's usually really sweet. If you talk to her and you just remember something she said, that's ridiculously sweet. Ever seen Bones? This girl Angela is talking about how she wishes childhood was simpler nowadays, and still all about going on swings and stuff, and this guy takes her out on a date to a playground and it is THE sweetest thing EVER!  

[ZarialAmeraise]

i still say penguin suit.