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 Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 6:22 pm
I'm sick. So sick. Stuck to the bathroom; sick.
My dad found out about me being bisexual; me having a boyfriend. Me having porn on my laptop. A weight is relieved and a new one administered. The feeling of unacceptance, the constant assumptions, the disbelief, the ******** works.
He thinks he's a ******** failure, which I don't want to push on him. He's punishing himself for something he shouldn't, and he's bringing up constant, irrelevant things. I'm ignorant? I'm ******** ignorant? Oh, no. I'm ******** crazy.
I don't know what else to say. Got anything else to add or want to give any feedback?
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:02 pm
Simply give it time. It probably came as a huge shock to him
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 8:30 pm
Unfortunately.. I don't think giving him time will solve anything. His father's moving as fast as he can to learn anything he can.
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:16 pm
It is still my advice.
Just acting as yourself, and not making it seem like a big deal.
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 12:50 pm
i know the feeling.my mom found out that i was gay.some advice would be to sit down and talk to your parents about it if they already know,but if they don't then it's a bit harder to talk to them.just be yourself and don't change just because your parents don't approve.
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:58 pm
Unfortunetly I don't have many tips or helpful advice on the subject. but, there is a furry podcast called knotcast which deals with emotional, sexual and relationship advice. I would suggest giving that a listen, they on more than one occasion give good advice on this topic. heres a link => http://www.foxstuffers.com/KnotCast.xml
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Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:32 am
Some people can't accept sexuality that is different then what they have in a pre-defined limit. If he's angry at himself, he's not going to abandon you.
Your father clearly cares about you, had he been a total bigot he would have thrown you away on the spot.
Trust in him to accept he loves you, if not your lifestyle choices. He's not going to throw you uaway, it would have happened allready.
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 12:15 pm
Just let it blow over man, it will all work out.
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Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 6:38 pm
Give it some time. If you think that he might not be able to except who you are than just sit down and let him know that you care for him and it's not his fault that you are what you are. Let him know that it is normal for a person to like who ever the hell they feel like likeing. Just stay the way you are and if he doesn't understand just let him know you care for him and nothing bad is wrong with what you are and leave it be. Thats all I can realy tell you. I'm not a emotional speaker. And i have no experience in this certain area, just hope for the best.
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