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God Of Video Games

PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 1:29 pm
I Like This Girl, And I Want To Ask Her Out But I Dont Want To Seem Like I'm Coming On To Strong. What Should I Do?  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 1:32 pm
Sometimes you have to bite the bullet and just do it.

Try and find the best time when you can talk to her and ask her, in a straightforward fashion.
 

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 1:39 pm
O.k. Ill Try And Ask Her When The Time Is Right, I Just Hope My Legs Dont Turn To Jelly When I Try To Ask Her.  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 1:42 pm
Just dont outriht say: I LOVE YOU.

Thats like a suicide move.

Do what T said. And just ease into things. Let her know your interested without creeping her out. XD  

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 1:51 pm
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First dates with girls you don't know very well can have 'awkward' written all over them. Try to invite her to something that is happening anyway, instead of an occasion for just the two of you; inviting her to a local concert or party is better than a dinner or movie. This accomplishes two things. One, you don't seem like you're trying too hard (or trying much at all, seeing as whatever's going on is going to go on whether she accepts or not), and two, you have distractions on the actual date (which is good if your legs tend to turn to jelly around her). A common rookie mistake is to make the first date WAY too romantic -you want it to be a no-pressure, laid-back instance so the girl can begin to feel comfortable around you. Romance comes later.

Also this is kinda off-topic, but only proper nouns and words at the start of a sentence require capitalization.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:13 pm
Your really smart lady psyco, almost sound like a pro. so i guess i got to ask her at the right time, very straight forward, don't sound like im trying very hard, and just take it slow. sounds easy enough. thanks guys. wish me well sweatdrop  

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:53 pm
God Of Video Games
Your really smart lady psyco, almost sound like a pro. so i guess i got to ask her at the right time, very straight forward, don't sound like im trying very hard, and just take it slow. sounds easy enough. thanks guys. wish me well sweatdrop


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Guy, listen. I can't stress the "Be You" any harder. Or you'll be stiuck in this big pretend spiral, and it'll suck.
Most girls like different things, and I, personally, am not a girl myself, but Don't be shy, but don't be a douchebag.
There's a good medium for everything.

Just ask her.

It's as simple as that..

Someone had a problem like this, a few months ago. Kath? Kriel? I dunno, someone.  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:55 pm
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I'm not a 'pro'. I'm a nervous wreck just like you and I just happen to have done this before a couple of times.

Er...with guys, of course. Not girls. User Image

Good luck, kiddo.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:58 pm
Fact: It's eight thousand times more awkward if you ask another guy, regardless of whether or not he's gay in the slightest. xd  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 3:01 pm
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Fact: It's eight thousand times more awkward if you ask another guy, regardless of whether or not he's gay in the slightest. xd
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that just happens to have fun-holes in the bathroom?"

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 3:09 pm
WylrPnufh
God Of Video Games
Your really smart lady psyco, almost sound like a pro. so i guess i got to ask her at the right time, very straight forward, don't sound like im trying very hard, and just take it slow. sounds easy enough. thanks guys. wish me well sweatdrop


XDXDXD

Guy, listen. I can't stress the "Be You" any harder. Or you'll be stiuck in this big pretend spiral, and it'll suck.
Most girls like different things, and I, personally, am not a girl myself, but Don't be shy, but don't be a douchebag.
There's a good medium for everything.

Just ask her.

It's as simple as that..

Someone had a problem like this, a few months ago. Kath? Kriel? I dunno, someone.

'Twas me.
AND WE ALL KNOW HOW THAT WENT, HUH?

;-;  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 3:51 pm
STICK IT IN HER AYSS.

Ladies like that kind of assertiveness.  

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 4:22 pm
2 things kinda obvious though, dont be stupid and start the relationship on the computer or spend most of your relationship on the computer. It will be doomed to fail. Also, don't lie, EVER. No matter what, lying will come back and bite u in the a** and you will hate it.  
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 4:28 pm
cravedave94
2 things kinda obvious though, dont be stupid and start the relationship on the computer or spend most of your relationship on the computer. It will be doomed to fail. Also, don't lie, EVER. No matter what, lying will come back and bite u in the a** and you will hate it.
derp
guess my relationship is doomed to fail then
because that's the only way we can see each other
ever  

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 4:30 pm
Orphie
cravedave94
2 things kinda obvious though, dont be stupid and start the relationship on the computer or spend most of your relationship on the computer. It will be doomed to fail. Also, don't lie, EVER. No matter what, lying will come back and bite u in the a** and you will hate it.
derp
guess my relationship is doomed to fail then
because that's the only way we can see each other
ever
I must be pretty stupid too.
>_>  
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