Im so confused!!

[Time Keeper Queen]

Okay so theres this guy ive wanted to be with for about 3 yrs now. The only problem is that hes almost 20 and im only 16. So well we started talking and stuff but i had a bf then. Then i ended up breaking up with my bf last week cause it wasnt really working for me anymore. But what sucks is theyre both really special to me. Kansas ive known for about 11 yrs and the 20 yr old ive wanted for about 3 yrs..and i dont know hes just really special to me. So im having some major boy issues. Not to mention i spent like a week crying about it cause i was going through a depression.

Also my moms FINALLY divorcing my step dad which im soooo happy for. But she has no job and he told us that hes moving out in about 2 weeks and if she doesnt find a job we have to move with him. And if i have to spend any more time in the prescence of that jerk off..im going to go clinically insane.

So....any thought on what i should do?? On either predicament?

 

[The BLAM Guild Mule]

Hmmmm, . . . very difficult to answer. For the problem with the guys, umm, well you could try to figure out which one is better for YOU. You say that they are special to you, ok. But which one would be better for you? Which one would be ok with you moving (if you had to), which one would stay connected with you? Which one would understand your problems better?

(And about the age problem with the other guy, I'm just saying that my mom and dad are 5 years apart in age, and they've had a wonderful life together.)
((((MY MOM WAS IN 6TH GRADE WHEN MY DAD WAS GRADUATING!!!))))

Good luck. smile  

[Time Keeper Queen]

Thanks i really appreciate the suggestions. Ill try to figure it out..but itll probably take a lot of time. Thanks again :]

 

[The BLAM Guild Mule]

Glad to help. razz  

[Time Keeper Queen]

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[Moths_and_Lace]

I wish you luck! and my mom just married and i can't wait till he leaves [if he ever does] he is the reason i am never home and when i am i am in my room. he yells[and i mean screams at the top of his longs] alot about every little thing. what was so bad about yours?  

[Nymphetamine-x]

Well for the family problem.. I really don't know what to tell you. Just hope things go right.

The boy problem, like what Ella said, choose which one would be best for you. And as for the age problem? Age is only a number. I believe a 16 year old with a 20 year old is illegal, but if you wait till you're 18 you can go with the older guy.