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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 2:30 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 2:36 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:01 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:41 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:52 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:58 am
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Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2010 3:31 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 12:29 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 12:34 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2010 1:00 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 6:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 8:43 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 4:44 pm
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Not to be judgmental, just concerned. It appears that some of you got into this world because of past abuse, which unfortunately gives those on the outside the wrong impression of who and what we are and why. BDSM should be about free and consensual sexual expression, trust and love, and it should come from a positive, healing place. And though it can be intense, it can be fun too wink . That's what I know and that's how most of those I have played with know as well. Call me old fashioned or old guard, but safewords are a rule I never break. Overall, I'm pretty fortunate that I had a rather normal geek childhood.
As for me, I blame reading the gay male classic, Mr. Benson, at a young age and Rob Halford (whom I suspected of being a leather daddy long before he came out lol). I was also curious about the BDSM world because of what people who knew nothing about it were saying. I started doing a lot of reading on the subject, especially the more academic and feminist works, as well as erotic classics like The Beauty trilogy. The submissive aspect didn't fascinate me as much as the Dominant side, but I studied both under a professional Dom before I was allowed to play. It was a great way to learn the rules and my place as a top. And yes, I knew I'd always been happily kinky.
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Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:24 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:54 am
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